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I like this guy at work, we talk briefly at times but not for long, how do I let him know I'm interested?

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mommymomster1 (Age:36 to 45)     When: 5 months ago
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I met this guy at work, I don't actually work with him in the company, his job is different than mine. Anyhow I see him for only a few minutes a day and not every day. I don't know much about him but he knows a little about me. We have flirted a little and he has complimented my looks. I am interested in him (I was a little interested before he even acknowledged me) My heart goes in my stomach when I see him. He's not a babe or anything but there's something about him that gets to me. So how do I find out if he is into me? How do I let him know I am into him? I don't want to make the first approach because they say guys are turned off by that, they like the challenge. I want to give him my number but he doesn't seem the type to call, but yet we don't really have any other means of communication. He is a mechanic and I was thinking of dropping my number in the complaint box that has all the slips of the problems he has to fix. What do you think? Is that too pushy? The other problem is if he doesn't like me in that way it will feel weird when I do see him at work. Yeah, I know the work thing is a bad idea. Please help. I am really confused! I am not a young teen, I have kids of my own so I am really rusty at this stuff. Thanx!

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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
First of all, great nick! :D It had me laughing!
And you're completely wrong------guys are not turned off by women approaching them; I don't know of any guy personally that has ever complained of a woman approaching him; if anything, we are flattered, and we love it. I have nothing but respect for the women that have approached me, or have gone out of their way to give me a hint that they were interested. Even the ones I wasn't attracted to, I was nice enough to them that we either stayed friends or hung out, but I never made fun of them. So get that misconception out of your system.

The idea about dropping the number---hmmm. Kind of tacky. There are better ways, of course. The good news is that you get to see him every day for a few minutes, so that right there gives you the chance to slowly get the courage to let him know you're interested.

Now, the question is----do you see him from a distance? Is there a chance that when you see him, even for a few minutes, is it possible to still go up to him and make conversation? If this is the case, there is nothing wrong with just going up and saying. Hey, how are you doing. How is work. Maybe even give him a small compliment.
Also, as I have mentioned in other posts, you can extract critical information from him, by making small talk about other subjects. For example, talk about the news, radio talk shows, etc. Whatever it is, but what you have to find is a topic about something you want to know about him. You want to know if he is married with kids and he doesn't have a ring cause he is a mechanic? Then you can easily introduce some topic related to that and ask his opinion. For example, 'so I heard that bush is giving free money, and if you have kids, you get more. Do you think that is a good idea. '? As you can see, whatever his response is, it most likely has to be related to his life. So that's the idea, ask an opinion that relates to his life, that way you get info.
Lets assume you have the info you want---he is single and looking, then your next step is to flirt and drop hints that you're also available. How? Ask about his weekend, does he have any plans for the weekend? If he says no, depending on how 'aggressive you are' you can say, how come such cool guy like you has nothing to do. '
Ok, long post. I hope you get the idea!
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