So here is the situation. My girlfriend broke up w/ me last Monday. We were together for a year and a half. She said she loved me and that she was scared of losing me. But she said that she didn't want a relationship right now. She also said that she hopes it is meant to be but she needs to do what she feels right for both of us. She instant message me twice 3 days after we broke up and talked for like 45 minutes on there. But then she started to make all this drama about how I need to stop talking to her roommates because I meet them through her and it's just weird even though I've became good friends with her roommates. And she says that they felt awkward talking to me but they never said so. But my ex said they didn't want to be rude and say they didn't want to talk to me. And my ex said that she don't want to deal with it. That she is trying to do her own thing and every time she turn around I'm freaking right there. Meaning she runs into me unplanned and that she hears about me form her roommates. My ex said she getting pissed off about it. I told my ex All her roommates would have to say is that it feels awkward talking to me. And I would have not said another word. That's not being rude. That just expressing how they feel. And I can completely understand that. I told my ex apparently your not over me though if it is bothering you this much. But this whole situation is bull crap to begin with. I told my ex that she said she so scared of losing me but apparently you don't give a crap about me. If it is bothering you that much then I won't write to your roommates anymore. I'm sorry for any inconvenience I've caused her and I'm through talking about this immature bull crap. Well then my ex said to me FU. How could you say I don't care. Screw you. Don't talk to me anymore. Does she really not want me to talk to her any more? And is there anyway I can get her bk? I really want to be with and I think she wants to be with me but I don't know?
She is confused. Leave her alone and don't talk to her roommates. They are feeling caught in the middle. Disappear for awhile. Don't let her see you or talk to you. It will make her mind wonder, how can he live without me? I took this advice from several people and it seems to work. They hate when you aren't bothering them. They like the attention even if they say they don't. Just leave her alone. You can find other things to do and other people to talk to. Start going out with friends. Go places you would never go before. This too will bug her. I hate playing games, but this is one of those times. Let her know you are happy go lucky and just having the best time.
Sounds like she is all mixed up. I think it must be her roommates or friends filling her head. I think the best thing is try to talk to her alone or distance yourself from her. You get to pick which one you like to do. Otherwise if she is all mixed up you should try dating someone else and see if she calls you back later if you still even want her back.
Dude, the best thing you can do is stay out of her life. Avoid her even. She can easily make her friends think your a stalker by your actions. You don't know what she says behind your back. I know it will be hard, but you are a MAN and men should be able to get over this. She sounds like a total bitch anyways. I know you feel hurt but that's life man. She isn't worth it. Leave her alone, get the "I want her back" out of your mind. The more you push to get together with her, the more she would push you away!
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