Ok he was my English tutor for like 1 hour and the whole time he was flirting with me and acting all nice, then after a few days or few weeks when I saw him at school he ignored me, I thought he would say hi, then a month later he came up to me in a night club and I danced with him, he tried to kiss me a few times and I said no then he tried another time, and we kissed. The next day I texted him and we were messaging each other for like 1 week and he told me several times that we should do something together. But it never happened. A few weeks later when school started he passed beside me and he saw me and he completely ignored me! I was sooo shocked I wanted to say hi, but I didn't because I realized that I was the one always text messaging and I wanted him to make a move. Last week I saw him again at a night club and when we got face to face he was looking at me and I said hi to him and he smiled. My question is why is he ignoring me every time he sees me, and why was he acting all interested in me but he never do anything? Did I do anything wrong? Was I easy going? Please someone tell me!
Update: He is the same age as me by the way , we are both 19
4 months ago
Probably playing hard to get. Something similar happened to me too which I also wondered why. I really don't know why guys like to ignore girls when they appear interested.
You can try ignoring him and see what happens, its time to turn the tables around.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
First dates are tricky. You want to impress but not go overboard. My ideal first date would start with dinner at a restaurant with an atmosphere where we can get to know each other. I'd wear a pair of jeans, a dark button down semi-casual dress shirt and a leather jacket just in case she gets cold. We'd go dancing after the date if she's up for it, after which I drop her off at her place.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
She'll hopefully know I'm not the worst dancer she's ever seen, that I have a good sense of humor, and that I'm a good guy. Other than that, you've got to keep yourself somewhat a mystery because if you spill your entire life story early on she's going to lose interest pretty quick. Hopefully, if everything goes well, she'll also know she can kiss me back by the end of the first date.