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Should I leave it alone?

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girljrt (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I went home yesterday, waited because I left my key and my boyfriend was not at home. Once he arrives I noticed he had cleaned up. Now this wouldn't normally have bothered me only that in his 'cleaning up' only my stuff was moved. The tables weren't polished nor the dishes done, which he does when he cleans up every other time. So I wonder.

As I'm wondering I go to our room and the door is closed. I open it and all my stuff is scattered across the bed like a rush clean up job where he threw everything on it. Knowing its the day before Valentine's Day I decide to let it go until I noticed his jewelry in the guest room and more of my stuff was moved off the bed.

I couldn't let that go so I asked if he took a nap or showered today? (he only takes his jewelry off when he showers or goes to bed) and he said he showered but changed in the bathroom. Interesting if he changed in the bathroom how did his jewelry get in there when that's the last thing he takes off?

After a few more questions I get him to that his friend had been over for 20minutes and that they played a xbox game. Knowing he doesn't really play the game anymore I asked to see his phone which he normally has no problem in me seeing. This time he did. We ended up arguing for 30minutes before he stormed off saying he needed fresh air.

All the time I still no nothing. Did they sleep together? Why was the bed cleaned when we wouldn't need it until Friday?

I think he cheated with the girl that's just his friend. Later on that night I saw a textmsg she sent him saying that he made her late for work. I want to know before I go home from work if I should let it go?

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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
Hate to say it but it does sound like he did the deed. Why would he not let you see the phone and why would she text him that. Although, does she know he has a girlfriend? Maybe you could talk to her. I doubt he will admit it but I would probe privately a little deeper.
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