For some reason, the majority of guys who liked me or had an interest in me have been pretty childish. I don't consider myself an immature person at all so I don't understand why I constantly attract this kind of guy. It's a BIG turnoff so I never date those guys but why do you think they like me?
Well there is a saying "You are only as good as the company you keep"
Maybe you are spending too much time in the places the immature guys like to congregate? Or maybe some of the female friends you have are a bit silly still? The problem might not be you at all, just where you happen to be.
Looking a few years older than you are might cause you to have higher expectation for a guy's maturity level. Is this true? Do you expect the guy to be very mature? Most guys, or people in general, don't really mature till they get pass 21 or so. And we know that men in general are notoriously slower in development for maturity than women. And the other thing I'd like to know is, are you in high school? If you are, then yeah.. I can see the problem. If that's the case, just wait until college.
No, I'm not in high school. I'm 19 but I look 22 or 23. I don't mind playfulness sometimes, but yeah I do expect a guy to be mature. Most of the guys in my area are the wannabe rappers and fake thugs or are just ignorant and lame. - 2 months ago
Well how do YOU come across as? Are you someone who is looks mature in terms of how you dress, how to talk, and how your mannerism is? I believe it is like-attracts-like and not opposite attract in this case (and I'm not implying that you are immature). So please tell us more on how you are as a person
Well I look a few years older than I am, I have a good education/background, I've been told that I come off snooty (I'm really just shy if I don't know you). That's what's confusing because I don't know why these guys think they can talk to me - 2 months ago
I dress pretty nice. I don't show too much skin but all of my clothes are coordinated and I like to keep up with some trends but overall my vibe is preppy/sophisticated. I like designer stuff too.
I still think my name is an important thing to remember<3 - 2 months ago
Its probably because you look like something that they would go after. If you want a more sophisticated guy then keep doing what it is that you do and he'll find you.
The cold hard truth is that it's not just you sweetie. Men are just childish in general. They are not on the same level as us, as most people know we mature much faster than men and there's really nothing we can do about it. One day we will all find what we are looking for but don't underestimate the immature man they can be fun as hell sometimes!
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