Some of you may know my screen name from other questions where I was down in the depths. I was near suicide. I needed a way to relax so I OD'd on some cough medicine hoping it would calm me down. Well. It distracted me. By making me hallucinate, well that was the fun part, but my lips got all flaky and I got dizzy and tired in addition. It also got me extremely sensitive for some reason. So I thought about suicide. So here is my question now. I'll give you the break down of the ENTIRE story. So I asked her out, as a casual thing and yeah we dated, after about a year I got really into it, and fell in love with her. Then she dumped me.
We didn't talk at all over the summer, then we started flirting and we went out AGAIN! This drove me deeper in love. (At this point "move on" is not an option) I was crazy about her and I called / texted her every day and she loved it. Then over winter break, she said she fell out of love with me. I was completely crushed. So I got into a few big arguments after our break-up and then we completely shunned each other. So I begged her for another chance at friendship and she agreed so I never argue back, (sure I'm her bitch I really don't care at this point) So we texted and talked all of the time.
Then we went on a school trip to orlando and she texted me the entire 4 hour ride after the bus ride while we were the theme park (islands of adventure) we starting flirting like mad. I went on Jurassic park with her and the ride broke down. Hehe. So we talked and she was cold so she clinged on to me, or was it just an excuse to hug me? I don't know. Then on the hulk and dueling dragons she was scared so she held my hand. In line to get on dueling dragons she hugged me for like 20 minutes. And it was one of those deep hugs not just a hug.
Then the next day she found out I ODed on some cough medicine and got mad at me. I think she was mad at me because she cared about me, but I was still scared that I ruined my chances, but she told me she wasn't mad at me so I was fine. She knows I like her, but I don't think she knows that I am in love with her. She still gets my jealous by telling me other guys are hot. Did I mention she liked my best friend until he got a girlfriend? Well I don't know who she likes now. IDC if I'm her fall back I really don't I just want her back. Because she can always fall in love with me again. I really don't know what she feels. If I tell her I am in love with her won't I be coming on to strong?
She knows I like her and she tells people she likes me a little bit but I think she's hiding some of it. On this trip she told me she thought I was hot and she wasn't going to lie to me. Pleas help! Tell me what to say to her, do I just ask her out now or give it time or what!? I am madly in love with her and I will not give up until she is mine again. Never
Update: About the cough medicine, I looked it up and found that the active ingredients, if there is another one or two excluding dxm then it is extremely poisonous when taken at high levels. Gladly I'm alive.
5 months ago
Update: I was so desperate to get a way to relax I slammed down 15 cough pills, 225 mg of dxm and I did get relaxed, but bloodshot eyes, dilated pupils, and extremely dizzy. It was fun I won't lie.
5 months ago
Update: On this trip she told me she thought I was hot and she wasn't going to lie to me.
Let me rephrase, she said, "your hot, I'm not gonna lie to you"
5 months ago
Update: She knows I really care about her and that I wouldn't kill myself and leave her behind, but she is so different from the other girls I've dated which is why I love her so much
5 months ago
You should have emailed me. I was worried about you. She is upset over the suicide thing. Now, she is scared. You have to be honest with her and tell her you are OK and you were at a loss then. But, it sounds like she is playing games. You should have emailed ,e sweetie. I could have told you cough syrup makes your lips flakey. :0
I am the first person to say follow your heart but if this girl is putting you on the brink of suicide then is it really worth it? No one and I mean no one is worth taking your life! Love can consume people and make you think you cannot live without that other person. Totally not true! You are worth your own happiness! A girl who plays games as this girl IS doesn't care about you I know that may sound harsh but you deserve so much better! You need to be with someone who will love you the same in return. We cannot choose the ones we love but we can choose how to deal with that love. I know all to well how consuming it can be to be in love with someone so much it hurts and just like your situation he was around when he wanted to be and on the prowl when things didn't go his way! I spent almost 5 years of my life that way and looking back now I wish I would have listened when everyone told me to get rid of him, Like myself and all the other people out there you will make your own decision just don't make it one that you will regret! Staying with someone who doesn't love you in return is a dangerous, as you already know! This girl who you speak of is telling you she likes your friend and purposely bringing up guys to make you jealous trust me she knows exactly what she is doing. Someone who loves you would NEVER! Intentionally hurt you. I can't tell you what to do but my advice is have yourself a good cry and let the girl go! She is not worth your time and she does not return your feelings!
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