I have been so happy at times and then mostly confused at times with this guy. We dated last summer, after a couple of months he said he did not want to date anymore, needed to slow down. We have become good friends, and have seen each other a couple of times for coffee and he picked me up at a train station. We communicate almost daily now and have been become good friends. We live about 100 miles apart. He sends me sweet emails and spiritual things which touches my heart and is so very sweet. He is very shy and is also going thru lots of tough things right now with having to sell his home. We actually have been event talking more on the phone. For valentines day he sent me a card which was very nice for my daughter and I. I then had sent his favorite dessert to his work and he was sooo happy and thankful.
Just before Valentines day I asked if I could make him dinner he said he was so busy this coming weekend with work but if something changed maybe we could just have dinner somewhere. Then after the dessert I sent him at work, I told him the owner of the place where I got the dessert from was happy he enjoyed it. This guy I will call him Mo, asked me if the place where I got the dessert was somewhere we could have dinner. I said yes it was a bakery/restaurant. I then said were you thinking about this weekend? He said if anything changed in his schedule he would let me know. I told him I had the next for days off from work. He said cool. Then Friday morning I got a text with a huge Valentines banner/picture saying thanks again for the dessert and have a good day. In the afternoon, he sent me another text asking how my clothes shopping went.
This proceeded into over two hours of sex text messages which elevated into pictures we both took of ourselves, naked of course. It was so HOT. I asked if I could see him Saturday night. He said he would let me know how work is going. And I have not heard from him since. This is where I get confused. He tells me he adores me, even sends me emails how I am such a good friend, tht God loves me and so does he. Valentines cards, silly cute jokes, calls me to see how my day is going, talks to my daughter on the phone, but when it comes to seeing him, I can't get him to do that. He suggested dinner out and if he did not like me, why would he say that? He said he would like a rain check on me making dinner for him, because he could not do it this weekend, that is why he suggested if he would be free maybe we could have dinner. After all the sex stuff on the phone, I would think he would really want to be with me. I am going insane. I am not dating anyone and have not been intimate with anyone since he and I broke up and I have told him this. I know he is not dating anyone right now, so I am confused over that. I think things are heading in the right direction as far as us maybe dating again, but I guess I just have to keep going forward? I am just confused. HELP
Update: He actually drove up today to see me and we took my daughter to the park and had a nice time together. It made my day and I know he has feelings for me. I am a very happy girl today.
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