I dated a guy for awhile. We broke up a couple of months ago. He is dating someone else. We email and text all the time. He has helped me through the hard time of the breakup and we still laugh at each others jokes and stuff. But, he only wants to be friends and it hurts me to be. He never said he wants me back or that he misses me, so should I just stop talking to him all together? How do I make him miss me?
Do you think no contact would hurt less? It's your call as to what is in your best interests, but I'd worry that two months from now you might be over the sad part and happy to have a friend that you trust and enjoy, or not have that person around but still be over him.
And is the goal in breaking up with him as a friend to force some kind of decision about what he wants? To make him miss you?
I think missing comes out most strongly when recalling good times from the past. Being absent may or may not trigger those.
Ignore him. If he is still interested, he will come around. If not, both of you will have moved on. Nothing wrong with continuing to be friends, as long as both feel the same way. If one or the other obsesses (maybe too strong a word? ), is only when a problem exists and is not healthy.
Well my ex dumped me. He said I didn't give him room when he needed it. So he broke up with me and a week later he has a girlfriend. And just to...
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I have tried not calling her and she still seems nonchalant I just want to know how I can make a girl miss megirls and guy I need your help.
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