I've been seeing this guy for a month and everyday he calls/texts me (which I'm not used to because I do all the calling)The conversations are good we both made it clear we want 2 be friends first he said he learned from past mistakes and knows what he wants now we've gone out 3 exes he's never initiated sex. I've been to his place and we could have but he said its to soon then the last time we were making out in his back seat then all of a sudden he says he doesn't want our first time to be in the back of a car so then one day I get a call from his supposed mother of his unborn child she stated that they are broken up but still having sex so that explains why he doesn't do anything with me what I don't understand is what was the point of me being there I thought it was going good was this game? If so what did he get out of it if he didn't get sex or me paying anything?
He might know that he has other responsibilities and doesn't want to complicate things. Or, he might be paranoid about getting you pregnant, because it's happened with someone else. This is a hard time for him.
I don't know bout trusting no ex that you don't know and that has a motive. Maybe she's looking out for you, but maybe she's looking out for her. Then again, it could be she and the baby gonna be a problem for you no matter what and now might be the time to run.
Thx 4 responding from a mans view what was the point of spending his time and money with me if he didn't get anything from me? One other point the ex did say she'd make his life hell so yes there's my answer its just hard because I felt a connection. - 4 months ago
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And that's where you're stuck in a good/bad place. He's spending time with you because he likes you. Everybody's got an ex - maybe you two can talk about that and come up with a way that he can handle it better? He's got to move forward. - 4 months ago
From reading your question and responses I think that this guy was interested in you, that's why he was spending time on money on you even though he wasn't getting any. That really says something because guys usually don't bother if they're not gonna get something out of it. Now, the ex sounds pretty manipulative so maybe that's why he could be keeping away from you (and also because you said you would leave him alone). And if it's true the ex is pregnant, then he still has some tie to this woman. So I think you should talk about it, I know you said you'd leave him alone but you need closure and you need to know what's going on.
Exes like I have said before sometimes will say anything to a person to SCARE them away. Do you know that this girl is being truthful? What has he said about this? Men are different when it comes to relationships he could have been just using your relationship to get over his last relationship with a possible baby on the way I'm sure he has a lot on his mind right now. Or he could be just your every day guy who wants his cake and to eat it to!! If that's the case then just be glad you guys didn't get sexual!!!
Thx 4 responding we haven't really got to talk about this because I said that I would leave him alone and he hasn't called either but I still don't get why he would waste time with me if he didn't get any and was spending all his time and money. - 4 months ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
A day at the beach or pool , then a casual place for dinner, then for a walk on the beach to look at the stars. Then the hot tub back at my place. I wear a little summer dress and you wear ripped jeans and a nice shirt. Falling asleep talking and watching a movie.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Anything he wants to. Except what I look like without my clothes on. We'll save that for the second date.
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