We have been together with my bf for 2yrs and 3months. We are still very much in love and he often talks ab getting married and having a lot of children. But him and I are so so so different when it comes to pretty much everything. We argue often and lately we have been arguing ab something that made me raise the question of breaking up with him. We have very busy lives and we see each other like once a week if we lucky. But he wants to have friends and go out with them for drinks, which upsets me due to the fact that we barely have time for each other. But he says that not going out with his friends will eventually effect our relationship, which is true if we did have time for each other. He says he feels whipped and I feel unwanted and unappreciated. Also I do not feel right when he goes out, I don't know if I just don't trust him or something. I made a lot of sacrifices for him and I do not feel that he does the same for me. I really love him but lately I feel that we have too many differences and I am tired of trying to settle them. What should I do?
It sounds like his priorities have changed. Either he's lost interest in you, or he's taken you for granted. Either of which are not good. If you continually to make sacrifices for him and he doesn't for you, then he will take you for granted and just use you.
Arguments are a part of relationships, but if they are constant, then there is a deeper issue. There is some bitterness that has stemmed from somewhere that needs to be talked about. Sounds like you guys don't have the greatest communication.
Maybe sit down with him, tell him how you feel. Don't give him an ultimatum because ultimatums are a lose/lose situation. But tell him that you aren't happy, and that maybe it would be better off if you guys called it off. And then see what he says.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
Hi, I'm Dan how are you doing today?
How do they typically respond?
Generally she tells me how she is doing. From there I start normal conversations. Pick up lines generally speaking are stupid and fail a good amount of the time, being yourself and being confident and comfortable are far more important.
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