My girlfriend is PMSing right now, and she PMSes really bad and like gets really mad and cries sometimes. What am I supposed to do? Ignore her? Talk to her like normal? Comfort her? I don't know what. It's so annoying, I can't talk on the phone with her without her getting mad over the stupidest thing in the world. Help!
PMSing is also completely random and UNCONTROLLABLE! It would be like your mood after your favorite football team lost the super-bowl to the worst team in the league!
We try staying anti stressful but you don't know how hard it is to deal with.
If you ignore her, a break-up will be days away. Girls on their period need loved; and definitely admired. If you stay away from her when she has NO confidence; doesn't that kill all her confidence? That is the worst thing you could do for her.
Anybody who answered A is incorrect. The 1 guy who chose B was 100 percent correct.
Please believe me if you buy her chocolates, flowers, ice cream, and a funny movie to cheer her up. She will LOVE you!
I agree--women are crazy--but so are men in their own way. As for PMS it is a physiological change that affects the hormones and the serotonin levels in the brain making us a tad bit. Shall we say. Bitchy. --some women are in terrible pain during that time--so much so that they have to take prescription pain medicine--that would make anyone--including men, angry and cranky. Buy her some chocolates, make sure she is okay, then give her space. Tell her to cal if she needs anything, but you want to give her a moment to deal with herself.
Also, teas like chamomile may also help her chill out and relax as it slightly alters brain chemisty--try soothing teas, and see if she calms down a bit during that time.
I voted comfort her, but even that can be annoying sometimes. I think your best bet is just to be very forgiving and remind yourself that she is not herself for a few days.
Ha, PMS. Some women have it more than others, but we all have it. I guess the best thing you can do is comfort her, and stay out of her way as much as you can! Most of the time it's a day or two and then we become normal people again! ;-)
She is like a lot of girls. I would give her the space for a day that she needs. Tomorrow she will be better. Unfortunately you are the enemy. Sorry. You could always take her some ice cream and midol. Lol
The answers on here are just too hillarious! Yeah, I have pretty much gotten my relationship with my woman down to a routine now. I know when her period is coming a few days ahead of time because she gets so bitchy I can't stand to be around her! We both know when it starts, and both of us head in opposite directions as soon as we see it coming on! We both know when the storm has blown over too, so to speak. If we do not go our separate ways during this time, we know we will end up fighting and that somebody will get hurt in all of it because we are both strong personalities.
I can answer from the perspective of my relationship with my sister. She also PMS' really badly. If I ignore her, she becomes more insistent that I become involved. If I talk like nothing is wrong, again she get worse. If I comfort her, she gets much better and even thanks me. I voted B.
I would say "A", give her space in my opinion. I've found that most women I've encountered with this problem just want to get through it without a hassle. Sometimes comfort is even interpreted this way. And to ignore it is to set yourself up for trouble. So, be there if they need you, but give them space. I even had an email argument with my girlfriend while she was in Finland. About something really stupid. Her answer was something along the lines of "will not be a doormat for anyone". And she was thousands of miles away! Powerful huh?
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