I feel like such a whore, I cheated on my boyfriend, whom I love with all my heart and soul. I was so drunk, I don't even remember doing it. We live 4 hours apart so I had to tell him over the phone, I couldn't lie to him and pretend I hadn't done it, but it has been 4 months and we still talk once a week and I still tell him I love him and all that, I can't let him go, he makes me whole, he just doesn't want to be with me. How can I get him back, and do I deserve to have him?
You were a shithead, but anyone can make a mistake. You obviously feel like shit about it. Give him time, and don't let him think you've forgiven yourself until he's forgiven you. If he comes back, you're one lucky slut (no offense, but I have opinions on this issue) and if not, you had it coming, and it'd be best to accept that and then make sure you never make the same mistake again.
From a guys point of view. Do like the native Indians,bend over and accept it? You are screwed,cheating on a boyfriend is a big no-no. It's even worse you were drunk,which brings me to next question. How can your boyfriend trust you if you go out and wasted? If it happens once it'll happen again,and again. And very few if any guys can see this pattern we usually call them scouts. Ohh and did I mention the 1-thing women can never do. They will never be better than men when it comes to scouting have it be sports, or in life.
One girlie, that was your mistake cause nobody can be that drunk to sleeep with someone, so don't blame it on the liquor. But then again everyone makes mistakes, and you should tell him that you are not perfect, you made a mistake and you are sorry. I was in the same situation, I kissed my ex boyfriend at a party, and when my boyfriend found out he was really hurt and mad. We went on a break from eachother for awhile, cause I had to let him think about it, and clear his mind, that made our relationship stronger, now we are back together. Just let him have some alone time to himself, and then when he is ready he will get back with you.
MsVirginChica
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
1. if you really loved him you would be able to fight the temptation to cheat on him even tho you were drunk there are ways you could have avoided the situation 2. in my opionion he still loves you too but you hurt him really bad it's good that you were honesty though but he is and will be upset with you for a while 3. try as hard as you can to prove to him it was a mistake and try to make it work try being just friends for a while let him cool down after all you would be pretty pissed if he did that to you right
I don't think that you deserve him but you can do everything possible to prove that wrong.
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