All girls have this thing called wild instinct, don't they? Yesterday it just came out of nowhere got the idea of getting my boyfriend's cellphone. And indeed I found out that before getting his cellphone he's been texting everybody and calling, informing that I'll be getting his cell. As the cell was in my custody I received a text from a girl. A girl that is unknown to me. I knew his girl friends but this girl was not part of his circle of girl friends that I know. I texted the girl and ask what's their relationship, she told me they were just friends no more no less and he is not courting her. But why did he hide it from me? Is this considered cheating or I'm just over reacting the scenario, since I haven't talk to my boyfriend about this.
Ask your boyfriend about it! See what he has to say and then explain yourself to him. I don't think he'd be texting and calling everyone explaining that you'd be getting his phone, if he didn't want you to know about it. If he was cheating or trying to hide something, he'd probably have deleted the text and call lists, don't you think? I think you are over reacting, just talk to him.
Just because your boyfriend has a friend who is a girl that you didn't know about doesn't mean he is cheating on you. Maybe he just hasn't had the time to introduce you two properly, or possibly she does or says things that he knows would make you upset so he's kept you away from him. Unless you find something else you, I don't think there is anything to worry about. If your that curious, look through the rest of his Text messages.
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