Ok my boyfriend broke up with me a little over a month ago and he said he wanted to stay best friends. He works long hours at McDonalds and so he keeps fairly busy with that or so he says. We talked on the phone a week after he broke up and then 3 weeks ago we hung out for a few hours between classes at college and then he called me later and we talked on the phone for a little while. I haven't heard from him or seen him since. Does he really not want to be friends anymore? Is he really as busy as he says he is or is he toying with me? He said he wanted to be friends still and he wanted to hang out and do something soon when I last heard from him but if he really cared wouldn't he have found time to at least call me if he cared about me as even just a friend? Is he not going to call or anything? He was always really sweet and he always said he'd return my calls as soon as he could and he'd always be there for me but well I'm still pretty crushed that he broke up with me and all for no apparent reason and I still love him and would like to date him again but now not even hearing from him or anything, its really hard on me and I don't know what to do. Should I keep waiting for him to call or something or should I just give up on him. I have called and left messages, IMed him, sent him emails and stuff too and no response yet. I've very confused, is this guy I thought was really sweet really a jerk?
Maybe he knew you weren't over him and maybe he isn't over you. Trying to be friends after a long relationship is hard for anyone. I have no idea what's going through his head but I would suggest that you back off and leave him alone. Maybe he just needs some time to clear his head, maybe he is a jerk. I would try not to waste too much time worrying about him, just try and move on with your life. Once things have chilled for awhile, maybe he'll call or you can call him, but I'd let things alone for now. Good luck.
My ex saw me at college a few days back, came up to me, chatted for a little while seemed to be his old self & he hugged me too & paused when he hugged me like he wanted it to last longer. He said he'd call the next day but he didn't. Any clue on any of that? - 8 months ago
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Maybe you just aren't a priority to him any more. I wouldn't worry about, just move on and if it was meant to be-it'll happen when it's suppose to. Hang in there. - 8 months ago
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