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Women executives..how to deal with them if they are angry?

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martyfellow (Age:25 to 29)     When: 4 months ago
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Women are hard enough to deal with, but when they have a position of any power, they tend to get hyper.

How do you approach them/calm them down?


Update: Update: I'm not of the opinion that men are overall better bosses, not at all. I tend to think that overall women are a little better, actually, but they DO tend more to power monger, simply because they aren't so USED to power as men generally are.    4 months ago

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cutestkathy
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cutestkathy      When: 4 months ago
They are so MEAN and will plot all kinds of things just to prove they are 'tough' and to get an image as strong-willed.

Our culture still indulges them, just as they did before, so they aren't called to account for extreme power tripping behavior nearly as quickly as men are. Plus companies put up with this because they need a certain number of female execs to keep the EEOC happy. This is a major factor in the larger corporate world, believe me. A lot of these jerkettes only keep their positions to make their company's EEOC reports look good.

Of course, let's not forget most of them are sleeping with powerful men, which protects them from the feedback most male executives would get for extreme power tripping.

Good luck, you'll need it.

All I can say is look for allies in the company; you're for sure not her only victim!
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ivarei      When: 4 months ago
women executives get p*ssed off because of men like you who are always doubting their competence.
you speak of women like they are horses to be tamed, I'm so sick of it.
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Question Asker I don't think that way at all, because I know they CAN:T be tamed. - 4 months ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: 4 months ago
Ya know I am really getting of all your sexist questions.
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Question Asker JUst asking. How can that be sexist. As for as power tripping goes, it's common knowledge.
Calling it sexist, you might as well throw eggs at the computer scrfeen. - 4 months ago
Answerer It isn't the question you asked per say. It is how you asked the question. You couldn't simply ask the question you first had to demean women. "women are hard enough to DEAL with." - 4 months ago
Question Asker If they weren't hard to deal with, anony, we wouldn't have Girls Ask guys - 4 months ago
Answerer I believe it is called girls ask guys, not guys ask girls. Hinting that men are har - 4 months ago

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Strongwoman      When: 4 months ago
That's one of the toughest situations for a man to be in. Women often aren't used to having power and I'll admit aren't the best at handling it. They do tend to overreact often.

There are two possible approaches: 1) laugh off her anger, make jokes, but still do what she says as much as is possible. 2) Just listen carefully until she winds down from her anger. Let her start again after she has talked herself out.

Be careful with #1, though, since she may think you are not taking HER seriously. Make clear you are laughing at the problem she is presenting!

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Lacutis      When: 4 months ago
Generally from my experience the best thing to do is to do whatever it is she wants you to do. Don't be a yes man and don't argue with her, either one will just make her more angry. Figure out what she wants accomplished and get it done. Just show some initiative, but keep her in the loop. Let her know if there are any problems. If someone from another department causes any roadblocks let her know so she can deal with them rather than you. Also, document everything. Email is best, memos on paper if you don't have email (if that's possible).

That's the best advice I can give.
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tazzy      When: 4 months ago
I wouldn't calm down a woman like that. I'd just keep on pushing her buttons until she bursts and breaks down.
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Question Asker I'm hesitant to provoke her. She's already slapping me every day! - 4 months ago
Answerer I guess you really really need the job then and there is nothing left to do apart from sucking it up and saying nothing. - 4 months ago
Question Asker Not really a job, she just runs the gym near work - 4 months ago

BaronScrewtape
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BaronScrewtape      When: 4 months ago
Take them individually. Women interested in climbing the corporate ladder are a different breed than most other women. They are all going to be competitive. However, the way they run things varies wildly. Some go on power trips, just like some of the men do. Some are vindictive because of imagined slights. Many will focus their competitiveness towards their peers, and view their employees with some measure of maternal protectiveness.

Some of the best bosses I have had are female. The absolute worst bosses I have had are male. Otherwise I have a mixed bag of good and bad experiences with both genders.

In general, when dealing with any angry executive, be polite and go along with any decisions they make, but do not hold back if you are asked for your input and it is not what they want to hear. It will go worse for you if you come across as deceptive. Just be straight and keep your emotions out of it.
And if they become vindictive towards you in any way, start looking for a new boss. Next to a spouse, a bad boss will make your life miserable.

Hope that helps.
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Question Asker Yes, thanks. While I agree male bosses are not BETTER overall, generally they aren't as power mad, for the simple reason that men are not NEW to power, while women still are to some extent.

And while she's not overall a bad boss, she's on a power trip with me here! And of course, this isn't Wells Fargo Bank. She just runs a small gym/spa. - 4 months ago
 
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