I think I'm really depressed and I think it's my boyfriend. All I do is cry and I think I would be happy if we weren't together but I know for a long time I'll cry but my friend told me she thinks we should just take a break. I want it too but it's just I can't. I love him so much I don't want to break up with him but then I think it's the best I feel like he doesn't love me but when I talk to him I feel he does well for the past week. I have only been sad and crying. I don't eat, just not hungry. My mom asked me what was wrong but it's hard I don't know what to say, I don't know why I'm like this. My sister thinks I'm depressed. She wanted me to go talk to the school counselor but I don't think it's my boyfriend though. What do you think? Should I break up with him? So can someone please give me some advice? PLEASE!!
I think you should break up with him and find out what makes you happy. Sounds like you have a lot of issues that are causing pain and hurt. You need to find out what they are, so you can take the proper steps to fix them. We all hurt and have pain at different times. But if it's all the time, then we need to do something to fix it. Being alone isn't all that bad. You can find out who you are, what makes you happy. You have time to develop a skill or talent that you have, such as singing, dancing, painting, sports, video games, skating, or whatever else. But you don't need a boy to make you happy. And can I give you a hint, there will be a lot more guys then this guy. You are young, and you will go through lots of relationships. But if you can't be independent and be happy on your own, you will never be happy with a boyfriend.
I heard once that if you love something let it go and if it returns to you then it was meant to be. No offense, but I see you're under the age of 18 which means that you have a lot of life left in you. If you think it is him that is making you depressed, get out honey. You don't want to be in a relationship like that the earlier the better. The teenage years are for enjoyment, I suggest (even if it's not the school counselor) please talk to someone.
crazngirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
If you don't want him to move on to somone else you shouldn't take a break. If you love him so much then you'll try to work together and fix the problem. I've been through something like that and it took a while to over come it, remember if he doesn't know what's wrong then he won't change. You have to stay strong and work together KEEP YOUR HEAD UP OKAY?
I think if you feel like you need a break take one, tell him your situation as well. If after a little time apart you can't stand to be without him, work things back out and get back together.
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