I have had my boyfriend of 2 years now, and he is very insecure and don't trust me because of one his last relationship which has nothing to do with me, and two he saw some text messages back and forth between me and a really old guy friend. He keeps bringing up what I did wrong, but then I find in his e-mail he had some chick send him some naughty pics! It's like he wanted revenge? He doesn't stop brining it up in my face that I did this horrible thing to him, and he can't trust me! Well, what about my feelings and what he did to get back at me? I love him with all my heart, and would never cheat on him or hurt him. I don't know what to do?
Update: Thank you all for helping me with this matter! I talked to him again last night, and he plays reverse psychology with me about it. He puts it all on me! :( He is away right on a business trip, so I still have a couple of days to think about this
6 months ago
Why would your boyfriend have nude pics in his phone that is total disrespect to the relationship if he doesn't pull himself together I would give him the impression that I am leaving him and if he continues to act up I would go through with it don't waste your life on this guy if he is not going to perk up you only live once so make it count.
First off, he needs to get a hold of those insecurities of his. Secondly, if he's been with you for 2 years and still doesn't trust you, he has some PROBLEMS! Lastly, he shouldn't compare your relationship with his OLD relationship. Three red flags on your side. Sit him down and talk to him about how you feel. Two years of each other should have you two on grounds to openly exchange feelings with one another. But the real problem is HIM. He needs to fix his issues and QUICK. No trust in a relationship is like a house with no walls. No good at all.
He is quite childish. Who cares if you talk to any guy as long as you are faithful and you are not lying to him about it. Then he gets pictures sent to him? He is a child. If he has that little faith in you and your relationship you need to move on and be with a man. He is ridiculous.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Well my ideal date would be the guy would come pick me up and be really sweet about meeting my parents and going over "The rules".We would go somewhere nice like to the movies and dinner would be a nice,simple first date.We'd see something probally funny or scary,but not really scary cause I don't really like those.He'd take me home later and he'd walk me to the door and whatever happens...happens
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Well that I'm in HS of course and hopefully more than he did before. He'll know I love music, for sure and the subjects in school I like or the ones I just cannot stand (like math, ew!) lol! Hopefully by the end of the date, he'll really come to understand me for me and we'll set a date to go out again, but like I said before whatever happens...happens.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 6 months ago
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