I recently found out my man was talking to girls on myspace. Some comments were days after our daughter was born, I am heartbroken and distrustful, now is it worth trying or is he a dog? Also how do you let something like that go and regain the trust? We've talked about it and he says he did it for attention. As a guy do you think I should leave? Do guys consider this cheating?
Well, if it isn't cheating, its the next thing to it. You need to talk to him about this, and come to an agreement about this. If you feel betrayed by him doing this, he should respect your feelings and stop doing it. He will have to earn your trust back.
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(Age:30 to 35)
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Is he your "man" or is he your "husband"? There is a difference. It's definitely not cool that he's on MySpace contacting other women. You need to confront him about that and ask him what's up.
I have a myspace and so does my man. I felt betrayed when he would write certain girls and even though he wasn't cheating I felt the way you do. Talk to him about it. He has a family so he shouldn't be on there in my opinion. Work on those trust issues.
I think you did the right thing by talking to him about it and telling him how you feel. What he did is not right and it is considered cheating, emotionally. But you shouldn't leave him because of that. Also, men, just like woman CRAVE attention. He was probably doing that because he felt like he wasn't being desired any more and wondered if he still has that ability. Make sure you stay on top of him though!
They say: once a cheater, always a cheater. Talk to him about this and tell him how you feel. If he's cheating, he doesn't deserve you anyway. If you're really heartbroken you should break free of him, I think, because that stuff is hard to deal with. He is definitely a dog. Trust isn't something I just can't get back. If you lose trust, you lose everything, I think.
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