If a man has another women on the side because the original isn't taking care of home does that make him bad?

Ha. Umm. Yes. That is a bad thing to do to your girl. Tell her what you are not getting. If she still doesn't, break up. Don't just go get it from someone else because the girl you are with isn't giving it to you. Manhood is a big responsibility and being faithful to the one you are with is part of it. And, isn't that show Cheaters shot in Texas? Joey Grecko is everywhere in that state! LOL. Just tell your original you need more.

Don't you think that sounds kind of selfish? Its bad to be with 2 women at the same time. So you either fix the relationship you are in now or break up and find someone new. So tell me if your girl was thinking the same thought you were right now what would you think?

Before you make the choice to go to another girl for your "needs," talk to the one you're with now! I get so frustrated when I see guys that cheat on their girls because they aren't satisfied, and the girl had no idea that she wasn't enough for him. It's possible that if you talk to your girl about this and tell her that the thought of going elsewhere for satisfaction occurred to you but you first wanted to talk to her and see if you could spice things up a bit, she'll be accommodating. But don't do anything until you've talked to your girl, because it's very possible that if she gets a better idea of what you want, she will become more than enough for you!

It is definitely not fair to keep two girls hanging on at once. If you talk to your current girlfriend and she isn't willing to make compromises to meet your needs, then break up with her properly before you go off with someone else.

To want someone else instead of the person you are with is not bad, but to have another woman at the same time as your relationship is bad. It's OK if you aren't happy and want someone else, that happens in relationships. But you have to end it with your current girlfriend before you pursue someone else. It is not fair to either girl if you lead them both on at the same time.

It's called cheating. I was in the same kind of situation and there's a choice. Stay where you are or move on. You cannot have both.

So why don't you just leave the one who isn't giving you what you need, instead of cheating and becoming a player? Seems like a pretty destructive way to get what you want.

Drayday,

I am not going to sugar coat it like EBS123.

God gave you a pair of testis, use them and be a man and either talk to your current girlfriend about your needs or end it and look for another woman. Don't try to morally justify cheating by saying the current girlfriend "isn't taking care of home".

Playing the current girlfriend is quite self-serving and weak on your part because it sounds like you have doubts about finding a new good girlfriend hence you want to keep her on the side. Woman are not side dishes. You either want to be with her or you do not, unless both of you agree to be friends with benefits.