Is it some kind of signal that a woman gives off? I was reading a post about a woman who was being respected and treated okay by this guy as a friend and now he has a girlfriend and he treats her differently. Someone stated that the girlfriend could be the wife type and the friend the "whatever girl" that he does not have to respect and have her do whatever he wants. How do men switch like that? How can a woman go from being respected to the "whatever girl" so fast? What does a man see that will even make him think that he could do that?
Oh that's a good question. With me it depends on the girl if she's a bitch then your an asshole and if she's a nice sweet girl then well its a weakness we can't be mean to that. Usually if she pisses the guy off in some way being a bitch a flake or anything like that she is now just considered a slut and if that's the case there's no feelings for her therefore we don't care about how we treat her.
The individual will see weakness and then exploit it. Now this isn't necessarily a man/guy thing as it is prevalent in both sexes. Some people are opportunistic users and when they see an opportunity to exploit someone for their own personal gains they will act upon it.
So rest assured there isn't a signal and it all depends on the other individual. Not all guys are cut from the same cloth and the same applies to women.
I think there is a signal or vibe that doormat girls throw off. I would look for 2 things. 1. Non-confident body postures (few smiles, slouchy frame, not good at eye contact) and 2. Critical of others. Those two things would clue me in that the girl lacked a sense of self worth and could easily be pushed around.
I'm not sure if those are the markers, but they are what I'd look for if I wanted a doormat girlfriend.
Some guys are just dirty like that. It's the worst thing in the world when a man decides that he should use a woman for all she's worth and kick her to the roadside. Whether it's for sex, money, or other material things, using a woman is just wrong. Then again, there's this thing where some guys feel as though they have to "conquer" as many women as they can just for an ego booster, which is dumb to me.
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