Is it true that once you have sex with a guy, they won't want a relationship with you...I mean, if you two had sex before ever officially 'going out'?
I met this guy at a party, and we went home together. I refused to go all the way with him since I just met him. All we did was make out pretty much.
Anyways... we started hanging out [just chilling, not hooking up] a few times a week after this. And about a month later, we ended up having sex (this was my first time ever). I don't regret it, it felt like the perfect moment. But anyways, we continued to hang out, and occasionally spend the nights at each others dorm (we;re in college...). But after that first time, I told him I didn't want to have sex again without commitment.
Is there a slim chance that a relationship will ever come between us now?
Depends if he is interest in you for more than sex it won't matter. If someone wants to be with you it doesn't matter if you have sex the first day you meet or the third month. Sometimes men will think your an easy score and not even bother to get to know you and just keep you as a booty call but it doesn't sound like the case with you two. I wouldn't worry about it since you are spending time together without sex he obivously has a interest in the person you are. This doesn't mean though that he wants to be serious with you. The only way to get a REAL answer to your question is to ask him if HE wants to be with you.
You can't generalize this rule to describe all guys. But unfortunately it applies to many. But if he wants a relationship he will want to spend time with you.
my boyfriend and I started off with just a sexual relationship, and then HE pushed for more... it'll be 4 years in October. so, like everyone else has already said, it just depends on the guy.
i think if he's still hanging out with you, after you not just giving him sex all the time, he really is into you.. I mean your in college, I know how it is, guys can get sex anytime anwhere there.. ha... so if he's still hanging out with you, chances are he's really into you and it could go somewhere!
Depends on the guy really. I've had sex with guys before a relationship and had a one afterwards and there have been times it was nothing more than just sex. What was his response to what you said?
We've pretty much been carrying on the same as we did before, just with no sex. At first afterwards, he suggested sex a few times, but hasn't brought it up recently. I'm just having a hard time telling whether he wants a relationship or not. We're both pretty busy, so now probably isn't be the best time... but I'm wondering if down the road there is still a possibility? - 4 months ago
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Ask him. I think there is always a possibility. The only way to know is to talk to him about it. - 4 months ago
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