My boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple months now and he's amazing. Everything will be great with us for a couple weeks and he' be the sweetest man in the world and then all the sudden its like he takes a step back and he doesn't call me or text me as much and doesn't say the sweet things as much or whatever...is this normal? I don't think our relationship is changed during those times he just tends to draw back for a little bit and it makes me feel like I've done something wrong...just looking for a little input...thanks!
Here is my insight: I can't say that it is what it is but as a guy, maybe I can give an insight to what you girls are wondering about. I love this one woman to death(I won't tell you who see is because it is none of your business) and every day, I am racking my brain to come up with a sweet thing to say/do to her. She knows that so she is just being cool with it and take it as it comes, if you know what I mean. She is the coolest girl I have ever met. She understand what I am doing and she let me do it.
So, maybe, just maybe, once a week is what your guy can muster. Give him a break and enjoy the love. In the beginning, he was giving you everything that he got bottled up for so long. Sooner or later, he will run out of ideas, and then, everything will be a bit slower depending on his ability to come up with something worthy of you.
Thanks so much.....ur input is super helpful! - 4 months ago
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Same here! I actually just had a conversation about that today. I don't understand why he does it. But it will only be for a couple days and then he goes back to acting like nothing ever happened. It usually happens once a month though. I have no idea why.
He probably just wants to draw back a little bit because everybody needs a brake..But well this happened to me too with one of my boyfriend and he ended up cheating on me he would do that too I think to just kind of not make it noticeable...But talk to him ask him what's wrong and ask him why he does text you that much or why he isn't sweet like he used to be! Just try it people understand each other better talking!
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