Cheating boyfriend?

Truth is he might be cheating, or he might not. What is worrying is your obsessiveness regarding this.

Checking his phone and his Facebook account, driving by his house to check on him and spending hours conjouring up ideas about what he may or may not be up to is not healthy.

If this guy likes you and you are good together then you have nothing to worry about, if on the other hand he is indifferent, then he may well be cheating.. either way there is nothing you can do about it.

So get out there, enjoy the company of your friends and family, have interests, do things, meet new people and stop obsessing about what this guy may be up to.. He will find you more attractive in the long run.

Men in this type of profession, are ones that may or may not come home one day or night.
Whether they have a relationship or not. But most do! and perhaps with this gentleman,
there maybe a small part in there somewhere in him, that wants you the most, but that small part of him that knows his profession might take him down. This might be a man that doesn't wish to lose you. this is the surface level I speak of. Beneath that it maybe he's afraid of losing you to his profession and he knows this. With this behavior you write about, would make perfect sense of what seems like the feeling of in and out with you, not sure. You are a woman, and I don't feel you are over reacting, you just really like this man, he's struck a note in your heart somewhere deep.

I think you're overreacting to it, but I do think that you do have a reason to be suspicious about him. Other than that, I suggest you confront him to make things clearer.

he might be trying to be careful about whatever he is up to , like if I was trying to meet other girls or allready meet one I wouldn't be mentioning that on Facebook if I had a girlfriend , so the lack of anythign there isn't surprising .
but his behaviour is very odd and the fact he's a firefighter could mean there is a lot of girls who might be interested in him , so yeah I'm not sure what's going on but maybe you need to talk to him about this if your concerned he's up to something .

As someone who left her husband because of an affair, I can tell you that there are so many signs to look out for.

1. His behavior changes. He seems extra happy like he can do anything.
2. His interests suddenly change. This was a red flag for me. He suddenly had an interest
in Country music.
3. He is texting all the time and gets furious if his signal goes down.
4. His affections for you change.
5. When he's with you he seems distant like he's hiding something.

After reading what you described, it doesn't sound like he's cheating. Do you make plans and he cancels them? I would say that if his actions haven't changed and he seems fine when he's with you, then you are most likely okay. Believe me, guys can be mysterious. When they are, we tend to doubt their commitment to the relationship. One thing I'm trying to learn after being burned in that past relationship is that all people are inherently good. You have to give them a chance. Trust can be hard especially now when technology makes it so easy to communicate with each other. But if you love him and you know he loves you, then you have a lot to be thankful for. If it continues to bother you, talk to him about your commitment to each other and how important it is to you. Sometimes guys need us to be bold and say what we need from them. If he is happy about the way you feel about a commitment, then yay for you! :)

well the means he is cheatin on you and you don't need that so you should call him and talk to him bout it...

If he likes you, he would've found the time to hang out with you! Move on to someone or spend some time being solo! Being single isn't as bad as it seems! And if this isn't what you want to do, talk to him. If he's pushing you off, then let him go.

That's weird. When I was around 18, I had a boyfriend who started claiming the same thing. Than every Friday he started claiming a headache & how he couldn't make it. Than on my B-day at a party held in my honor at his parents he announced he was being accused of getting a 14 year old girl pregnant at a camp ground. It explained a lot of why I was asked why I was with such trash at the prom. I never did know the outcome because I didn't stick around long enough to find out. One day 2 mths L8r he did call me to see how I was. I could hear someone in the background yelling hurry up with the phone. It sounded like when in a movie your in jail & people are waiting in line to use the phone

my ex always did that but he would say he's busy and he's working so much or always something unexpected comes up..but he proven me that he hasent lied..so I got to see him only every saturday nite.. so I don't think he's cheating on u..just maybe has a lot going on..

btw I think you should look at my question and try helping me out 2 please... ;] I would really appreciate it

Wait for the past week or so or 5 weeks?That confused me. He does have a stressful job. That was a good thing that you took him ice cream to try to take care of him but did you get it to him? You said his car wasn't there but was he? If not did you call to find out? Have you been cheated on in the past? Maybe your over reacting. Is it all in your head or do you have a GUT feeling. If you have that GUT feeling go with it. Mine has never let me down. Also why would he have headaches cause of rain?