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Have you ever cheated?

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NotSoBad (Age:25 to 29)     When: 8 months ago
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Have you ever cheated?

What do you believe your reason was for cheating?

Did you feel guilty?

Are you sorry you cheated?

Do you think you will cheat again?

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Jayne
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Jayne (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
I cheated once. I fooled around with the guy I actually loved. I realized I didn't love the guy I was going out with. It was terrible though, we were both very out of it and I would never do it again. I was honest about it right away with my boyfriend at the time though and I felt horrible about it.
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
Sorry to say that I have once. We didn't have sex, but we made out. I felt so very bad about it, I came right home and told my other half about it. Not the best thing for our relationship, but I couldn't go back and change it after the fact. So I did the only thing I knew. Tell and beg for forgiveness. I would never do that again to anyone. I hated myself for it. So, I noticed you asked this question but you didn't answer. So?
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Question Asker No I never cheated. Why cheat? I have enough respect to say goodbye to someone before I sleep with someone new. I give someone a chance (multiple chances at that) if I feel things are shaky I would break it off and then pursue the next one - 8 months ago

Lesae
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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
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Cheating is the worst thing you can do to a person. If you truly love that person you would never consider doing it. Ones they cheat? Are only in love with themselves and don't deserve the people they are with.
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springdragonfly
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springdragonfly (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
No, though I was the person who was cheated with (i didn't know he had a gf). Hurt to find out, but I ended it. Worst part was probably meeting the gf through other friends later on. I was really conflicted as to what to say when she asked if I knew her bf (lots of mutual friends). It was obvious she really liked him.
I don't think I could ever cheat. It is so devistating for the other two people.
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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
I cheated on a couple of people back in my dating days, but NEVER in my marriage (and I have been married 10 years). My reason for cheating was that I was tempted by someone else. Both times people who sweet talked me for hours until I gave in. Yes, I felt very guilty. But in the long run I am not sorry because the people I cheated on were players anyway and cheating on me! No, I will never cheat again.
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lonlehube
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lonlehube (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
Yes I have cheated. I was out of town for about a month and a situation presented itself. Yes I felt guilty. I don't think I am sorry for it. Things were not going well at the time. Yes if the right person came along I think I would do it again
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Nope

So I'm guessing the others questions don't affect me.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Yes I have cheated I was with my first love. She and I were living together and I took a trip out to see my friend. I met the second best girl in the world (first being my orignal gf). We got close and well me and my first girlfriend were just friends with benfits. So I fell in love with this other girl. It was cheating because I really did love both of them and I never told them about each other. Then one night they both told me they love me and never want to lose me (they both said it in their own way) it was so touching that I just ran away for a week to think about what I was doing. When I got back I got them together and told them what I was doing. I choose and confessed my love to the second one she. Threw a chair at me. The first one helped me up and told me she will always love me. We stayed together for a while after that and I was always faithful. Then one day she got a chance to go to college and she just left me with a note that told me everything and that she had to leave because it was too painful to be with me.

My reason for cheating was I had the chance and I THOUGHT it would be worth it.

I felt guilty for the singular reason that I hurt the two best girls I ever knew.

I am sorry but only because I hurt the first one.

And I will NEVER cheat again the memory of the pain I caused both those girls will make sure of that
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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
I have cheated

The reason for cheating was my girl was not around and this other girl was and we drank some beers and see looked pretty okay

I am more sorry for the times I have not cheated while I could than the times I did cheat.

Not to my current girl. She is just too goo, beautiful, honest and perfect for that. But with playing cards one never knows
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RC2000
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RC2000 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
No I have never and I would never even think about cheating.
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soLeYopticAls
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soLeYopticAls (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Yes I've cheated, most likely because the opportunity simply presented itself (with a little bit of pursuing of course). And even if it does make me feel guilty and sorry afterwards, I realize that it will always be very difficult, if not down right impossible to turn down a free meal.
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lovebird01
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lovebird01 (Age:Over 45)      When: 8 months ago
Nope! Haven't cheated. No reason to.
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ionlife
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ionlife (Age:36 to 45)      When: 8 months ago
Interesting how the ladies are leading on having cheated. Damn, I lead a sheltered life. :)

Have not cheated myself
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crashmonkey
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crashmonkey (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
Yes, I have cheated.

I was very unhappy in my relationship, and the girl that I cheated with was the opposite of my girlfriend in every way. She was super nice to me.

I felt crushing waves of guilt for the rest of the relationship.

Yes, I was sorry I cheated. The right thing to do would've been to just break it off.

I will never cheat again. It was a very painful lesson to learn when I was younger, and even though I was miserable in my relationship, nothing justifies putting someone else through that. It's better to be honest with yourself and your partner if you even THINK that there is a chance you might cheat.
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DanishDeLuxe
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DanishDeLuxe (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Have you ever cheated? Yes, once :'(

What do you believe your reason was for cheating? I really don't know. Maybe I was getting too comfortable in the relationship I was in.

Did you feel guilty? Yes, its the worst feeling I've ever felt.

Are you sorry you cheated? Very sorry. Wish I could take it back. No one deserves that pain!

Do you think you will cheat again? No, never! Wouldn't want it to happen to me neither.
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