My man and I have been together for more than 5 years. I feel so sad that when we are home together after work all he does is play video games online or watch tv. He barely talks to me and when I try to talk to him it's like talking to the wall, so of course I get mad and just leave him there instead of wasting my time sitting there just watching. Has he lost his interest in me? I love him very much, but this isn't very nice of him. Don't know what to do.
Try not to walk in his shoes...don't assume he has lost interest, he may be very comfortable in his world with you in it, try this...when you know he has had a good day at work and he's going to be coming home in a rather good mood...give him a nice hello, tell him you love him and ask him to go to dinner with you...go and have a nice dinner, keep the conversation upbeat and positive and when you get home later let him know that you are interested in him in bed...should all this happen and the next day you back to the same place, then its time for a wake call...
I've totaly been there, I have to say I think your a strong woman. Here is something to try (if you haven't yet) tell him Babe (or whatever you call him) I need to have a serious talk with you ,I need your full attention, right now please. Then get him to sit down right beside you and look him in the eyes and tell him what you see is going on. Once you've said all this give him a min then ask him what he thinks ,hopefully he sees that he's been rude and that it hurt you. After he tell you what he thinks maybe you guys can talk it out. All the luck in the world to ya girl, hope I've helped. hope it works out for you 2.
I know how you feel, my boyfriend of 2 years never wants sex. We enjoy every minute together but never have sex. I want him sooooooo much all the time and he says he loves me all the time. I just want him to want me. I know he is not cheating on me but I still want more.
sportchick-78
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
He so has not lost interest, just TRY and talk to him about if he doesn't listen just leave he will come after you, trust me, say "that's it, I'm leaving" or something like that, that should get his attention if he REALLY cares!
Schwildcat
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
It's pretty normal for the fire to fizzle out after that long. I don't think he has lost interest, he may just be comfortable with you. Try some new things to spice things up.
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