I've been with this guy online for 2 years, we're a huge part of each others lives and we really do love each other despite what most of you may think. but lately it seems as if we're growing apart, like we've talked about the same things over and over again. I still love him and in no way want to stop talking to him or break up but I think we need more. is this a sign that we should meet because the computer isn't enough for us anymore? or is it a sign that we should break up and we've lived out our relationship for as long as it could/should go?
I think that you should break up if you really cannot meet him. As you have just graduated you have loads of time on your hand you will definitely find someone in the college, however its only possible if you don't think about anyone else moreover relationships on the net cannot go on for a long time till you don't meet up. Both of you might have some expectations for Ur partner which can be only recognized when you meet so take a wise decision.
till 2 years you were bein xploring each other's life.. wich was seemin to be interestin for you both.. now as of there isn't nething much to talk upon you shld just try chatting over daily day to day happening.. and I dun think you need to b getting apart.. and yea you shld cross those Online limits and meet..! =) Best of lucks..!
He lives in michigan I live in connecticut. and we both don't have that much money to travel. he's also 19 and I'm 17. I just graduated high school and I'm going to college in the fall so the only way we could meet was if he came here. - 4 months ago
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Ohhhh I see. Well I think you should try and meet. The computer can only help you two connect for so long, but eventually it won't be enough. - 4 months ago
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Meeting is like the scariest thing to think about though. I want to so badly, but I'm so worried that maybe I won't be what he thought I was going to be or something. we've exchanged pictures and he knows what I look like and he thinks I'm beautiful but I don't know, I just think of hte worst possible scenarios, and I really don't want us to meet and then realize we don't love each other as much as we thought we did.. more so him than me. because I know that if we met I wouldn't be dissapointed at all - 4 months ago
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If you don't meet it WILL fail though. A relationship is more than communication; there has to be a physical aspect to it. If I had the choice of hanging out with someone close to me, or someone in another state, I'd choose someone near me. The longer you two don't meet, the more likely one of you will meet someone else. Meeting is the only thing that might give you two a chance. - 4 months ago
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What makes you think your his ONLY online girlfriend? Maybe he has another internet girlfriend he is talking to...
I am in the same predicament and I would say, meet him and take it slow. You can't conduct a proper relationship over the internet. You have invested 2 years, so take the leap and see what happens. Good luck!
I have the same problem! Well, not so much the talking thing because I always just talk about whatever... I'd say meet him, because I'd be completely envious. I also have the same fears of meeting my boyfriend, but just go for it! It isn't THAT far. So GO FOR IT! Seriously, you may regret it if you don't. And you're going to have to face your fears of meeting him someday, now would be the perfect time.
My relationship was the same way. Only we were together for three years. Things started falling apart in January when he went back to college. I had planned to meet him later after I was finished with school because I wasn't making enough at my current job to go visit him. Now, we've broken up, but still talk. I think if we had met, we would still be together and still be deeply in love. Meeting sounds like a good idea. It could make your relationship stronger.
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