My girlfriend cheated on me twice. Once it was sex then it was just making out but both with the same guy. I can't get images out of my head. And then I can't trust her more. Then I wonder. If she loves him or me. Or if she's just lying about everything. I trusted with all my heart. Now it's broken. I can't trust her with the pieces I have. And I'm thinking if I just break up with her. Maybe she'll realize what she had. Though I'm scared she'll probably easily just go with him and forget about me. I don't want to lose her but then I don't want to get hurt. Things need to change. I just want to trust her. I love her to death. I don't know.
If you really think she's sorry, and believe she won't do it again, forgive her. I cheated on my boyfriend once and I regret it more than anything. He forgave me and I was so glad, and I will never do it again.
If you don't think she's sorry, break up with her before you get any more heartache.
Hate to say it but I'd leave her. If someone cheated on me not only once but twice they would be out the door. Even if you do forgive her you know good and plenty there will always be a trust issue.
She cheated not just once but twice. I have cheated once and lost him I was stupid . I would tell her to hit the street. I know you going to be pain for sometime because of this but I believe that you will found a girl that will be honest and trustworthy to you.
Well, you either stay with her, and forgive her, or break-up with her and leave. It sounds like this might be your best option, because its obvious you are having problems forgiving her, and just forgetting about her affair. I personally would move on anyway. Why stay with someone you can't trust?
As my mother used to tell me, "Don't worry, you'll heal up nicely before your wedding day. " As enrico said, get them out of your system as you have a long long relationship road ahead of you.
. And definitely do not settle on women who cheat on you. To me, once, is enough to cut the ties as life is too damn precious to let someone else tear out your heart twice.
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