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Sounds like you need to leave the guy. It is only going to get worse. He probably thinks you will never leave, that he has you trapped, so he's going to do whatever he wants to you and control you. This is not healthy, it's not right, and you don't deserve a guy like that. You need to get out of there, go live with your parents until you can get back on your feet. Being a single mother is tough, but it's not the end of the world. There is always help available for you. But being with a guy like this, you're only going to be unhappy. You deserve to be happy. It's your life, and your babies.
Honestly, I highly doubt that you really will do anything about it, because most girls won't. They don't like getting treated like crap, but they are too scared to leave. But I know lots of single mothers who are doing fine. And if you have parents, relatives, friends that can help you out, then it makes it so much easier. But get rid of this guy before you get married, because it is only going to get worse. You really don't deserve to get treated like that. You need to call your dad to come pick you up. And tell your boyfriend that this isn't working. It will definitely make him think about it, because he probably thinks you're not going anywhere. And chances are, he will apologize and promise he'll change. And he probably will for a couple weeks, and then slowly start doing the same thing. Do yourself and your baby a favor and get out of there. If you love your baby at all, get it out of the unhealthy situation.
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