So about a year ago my boyfriend hated this girl who would constantly text him etc. Over the summer he warmed up to her. That is also about the same time that I started to dislike her. I found pictures from a party that they were both at where she is on his lap. She doesn't drink. From there they will hang out often when we aren't hanging out. Most of the time other people are there, although I'm still not friends with any of that crowd, I've been included a few times when I can. I ultimately got so jealous that one time when we had fallen asleep on my couch I checked his phone. It was filled with texts from her. They were having a conversation that was sexually charged. He called her baby and promised to call her when he got home. I told him they had to put boundaries on the relationship, I never confronted her although I see her in social events. He explained it as that she was needy and he never meant to hurt me that it didn't mean anything to him. His dad cheated on his mom and he doesn't see him anymore. Recently I heard a rumor that he'd visited her at school. He swore it wasn't true. I want to believe him because I can't seem to place the guy I date actually hurting me like that and yet I feel like all the signs point to it. What do you think?
Does your gut say he is cheating on you, if it does, science says that 90% of the time that your gut feeling is right when it comes to your partner cheating on you.
Most people who seek advice are only asking for comfirmation of what they already know. Women have such great instincts. You know he did it, you are just asking for somebody to confirm it. You don't need this, you know he did it, you can feel it. Trust yourself and your instints dear!
I think he's cheating on you. He was probably pretending to dislike her at first so you wouldn't suspect anything. Sounds like he's trying to have the best of both worlds. You're young, don't let this ruin you just drop him. A woman's instinct is never wrong remember that.
He cheated when he called her baby and exchanged sex text. If he hasn't, he wants to. I would have a serious talk with him. Then I would ask her. Who cares if she is needy, she can be needy with another guy. Your boyfriend was wrong by communicating stuff like that with her. He can't be trusted. Just my experience and advice. You are going to end up hurt.
I'd say he's a liar. No guy should be texting a girl more than his own girlfriend unless it's family. Hate to say it also that if you heard a rumor in this case it's probably true. The signs to all of us look as if he's cheating too, so if we see it you know you're able to see it as well.
I think he is. That's my opinion. If this other girl was texting him and it was sexually charged and he didn't tell you well that says something. It should have bothered him and he would have told you this girl was texting him these things. He let the girl sit on his lap. Come on.
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