My boyfriend is having a lot of problems in life work, school, family, everything. So when we argue he always says he hates making me mad and he already has problems of his own and doesn't want any more. Does he want to be with me or does he use that only as an excuse?
Update: Does he even care? guys help!
8 months ago
Not knowing any details it's hard to say. If his aggression is generated by the other things and it's causing him to lash out at you, then it's a problem. Or, if your relationship is somewhat serious, you might be the only thing going for him right now and he's genuinely afraid to lose you. Talk to him about it, tell him it's making you feel this way.
He is definitely taking it out on you, and it sounds like you need a new boyfriend. Everyone has problems at times, but he should not be taking them out on you You deserve someone better that will treat you better. Drop the loser.
He is taking it out on you. But, you should not allow him to belittle you. Talk to him and ask him if you being out of his life will be easier on him. That you care and don't want to cause anymore trouble. If he says yes, then walk away. If he says no, tell him his verbal abuse has to stop or you will walk.
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