Me and this girl have been best friends since I was in 4th grade, and now I'm in 10th. That's a 6 year friendship, so I thought it was a true friendship. She told me my boyfriend was cheating on me with her step sister and I believed her- when you've known someone for that long it's hard not to trust them. Then I found out that she lied just because she wanted us to break up, because she doesn't like him. He was working at the beach and the girl he was supposedly with was 10 miles away from me the whole time.
Definitely not ANYWHERE near the beach which is four hours away. I really don't want to lose such a close friendship but she lied to me and almost cost me to end a good thing because of the lie. Should I tell her how I feel or should I just let it go and still be her friend?
You need to tell her how you feel. Some girls like me get jealous when a their friend is spending more time with their boyfriend. She would probably have no problem with him if he wasn't your boyfriend. It's strange. She did it because she's selfish. Explain to her that you are happy with this guy and it shouldn't have to be ruined because she feels threatened. And she does. Explain to her that the friendship that you and her have cannot end because of one guy. She needs to not be so juvenile and respect your happiness, that's what a true friend would do.
Tell her how you feel. If you continue to harbor resentment about this situation it will always be a trust issue between you. If you want to continue to be her friend you need to be truthful. Let her know how you were hurt by what she did and chances are she will apologize and have to learn to deal with your man. She was just trying to protect you. She doesn't like this guy so, she doesn't think that he is good enough for you. Try to understand that and let her know that she can openly tell you these things instead of trying to sabotage you.
sportchick-78
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
I would tell her how you feel. Say you can still be friend but just have her swear not to do it again no matter how jealous or anyhting like that, that she is!
crazngirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
She's not a good friend because if she was then she wouldn't have tried to break you and your man up rather or not she likes him- but just don't tell her things. SHOULDN'T TRUST HER.
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