In the first year of my relationship with my current boyfriend, I told him that I don't like to be pampered too much or cared too much. Cause I'm afraid that I will get used to it, when he stops showing it I'll be looking and craving for it. In short I'm afraid to get hurt and expect things from him that he didn't do anymore. How could I stop this annoying thoughts of wanting him to do these things again like pampering.
I think you should let him pamper you if that's what he wants to do. There should be no reason you are afraid for someone to treat you well. Even if you do get used to it, then at least you know what a good relationship is like. If he stops treating you the way you want in the future, then he probably isn't the right guy. I think what is important is that he is good to you and vice versa, don't focus on these negatives. Just let good things happen.
The guy who is doing it only to win your affection, will quit. The one who loves you will never stop. The key is patience, accept being pampered and pray to God he will always do it, because when he quits, the love is gone.
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