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Should I forgive my cheating girlfriend?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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Here's the back story, I've been seeing this girl for 11 months now (march 21st is our one-year) and throughout the whole time we've had our ups and downs. The thing that bothered me most in our relationship was that she never opened up to me. She never told me anything and I asked her about it so many times. I told her absolutely everything and it hurt me that she couldn't do the same for me. Anyways, a couple of days ago she told me she cheated on me way back in November and I've been questioning whether or not I should just end it. It was after November when I thought I fell in love with her and right now I think that the last four months were all a lie.


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sonogirl81
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sonogirl81      When: More than a year ago
I would end it but I know that's easier said than done. My boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me. If she cheated on you this early in the relationship then I would be suspicious of her actions in the future. Get out now.
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Suzannehope21
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Suzannehope21      When: More than a year ago
Sounds like you should cut your losses and move on.
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martyfellow
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martyfellow      When: More than a year ago
Yes they probably were. I would break it off, at least for a while, so you have time to think clearly.
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ben-jebb      When: More than a year ago
Sorry first I have just got to say I really hate people who cheat and how they can do that to some one and I think people who have cheated don't deserve true passionate love! Sorry about that I just had to say it! Anyway I would say unless you really deeply love her you should get rid of her once she has cheated there is a part of you that will never forgive her unless you love her! I have been cheated on twice and I think that is why I have such a hatred for people who cheat!
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The-Invisible-man
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The-Invisible-man      When: More than a year ago
don't take her back
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
I've had the same happen. Just because we are in love doesn't mean they are. If you really like girl and obviously you do, give it a little more time, just don't let it drag out years. You need to sort of step back keep your options open, but you don't have to dump her yet. It's up to her to prove her love for you. I've found people often confuse the word love with like. This is why a girl when she breaks up can easily go back to being friends. They will say something that confuses like, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you. Trust me you need to learn to read the last part after the word "but", because that is the truth. Girls don't like to hurt a guy, but they still will toy with there emotions. Forgive her and don't question her on it, because if you love her what she did won't matter. What matters is now, does she love you? It's up to her to prove it and it will take time. Good Luck.
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