My boyfriend and one of my friends (that is a guy) are telling me that they should be my top friend. But when I put Logan (my friend) my very top friend, my boyfriend e-mailed me and told me to put himself as my top friend. And when I did, Logan, (my friend), e-mailed me and asked why he was after Chris. (I don't think he knows that Chris is my boyfriend though).
Okay, I know this is a bit late for you, but here's what I did to solve this problem. It wasn't a problem with a boyfriend, just with various friends vying for my top friend spot. I picked my top 16 friends and put them in alphabetical order. That way, I was still honoring all my friends without saying who was the "top" of the top friends. I couldn't pick a top friend anyway. I have a few best friends and so many really close friends that there's no way I could ever rank them.
First of all make sure that Logan knows Chris is your boyfriend. That might clear up most of your problems. Then try explaining to them that you like them both in different ways and for different reasons. Yeah Chris is your boyfriend, and you love him, but let Logan know that boyfriend or no boyfriend he will always be someone you want to hang out with and talk things through with and you know you can count on him as a friend no matter what. If that indeed is how you feel about him. Hope this helps! :)
Do what makes you feel best. If they can't deal then too bad! I would put it the way I wanted it and wouldn't change it. It is only a friends list. They sound immature.
Communication is KEY! You need to tell Logan that you are dating Chris.. you can't hide that from him. And if Chris is tired of it after a while the relationship will end. You should get 16 top friends and put only 4 guys in there and put all 4 last out of all your friends but keep your boyfriend first out of everyone and give him your password to prove absolutely nothing is going on.
Schwildcat
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
First you need to make sure that Logan knows Chris is your BF. It sounds like he likes you and is jealous. He needs to know where he stands. If he is truly your friend and not just trying to get with you - he will understand.
Alwayshis721
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
You should let him know. And if it is myspace it's drama and starts stuff well myspace doesn't, people do so. If you don't like logan as a boyfriend and you have a boyfriend it should matter tell him chris is you b/f. If logan gets mad that means that he likes you. Obviously so. It's all on you.
Always put your boyfriend before your male friends. Men have low self esteem whether they admit it or not. If this guy is really your friend he will understand.
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