There is a girl that I like, She's from another country (japan) but that don't matter anymore. It doesn't seem like culture is the issue here. She's doesn't want anything to do with people who want a physical relationship with her. She states to everyone in a blog that if someone shows sexual interest she will instantly get upset and stop consorting with you. Here's the problem, we sleep together and cuddle and mess around all the time. We've been hanging out for almost half a year and just a month ago we started sleeping in the same bed and cuddle when she comes over. Anyway back to the question, She seems to care a lot about me. She's worried about me and called me one time crying because I was hurt and it upset her that much. Also I think I'm falling for her, problem is if I tell her she'll probably reject me and our friendship will be over. At times though we seem really really close, like she wants to be with me but she's scared. She has emotional issues, and thinks she doesn't deserve love. She's been in love before and has had boyfriends but that was 5 years ago. If she's just working through issues and needs support I would love her and support her, I don't need a physical relationship especially if she isn't ready. She's had a lot of bad experiences and it really scared her. Like I said I can wait, and like I said our relationship is close. But if she's serious and will never love me back even emotionally I won't know what to do. I want to talk to her but if I do and she's freaked out by it she'll shut me out and our friendship will end. Should I be there for her and see if she'll open up to me, distance myself from her or tell her my feelings and risk her leaving me forever?
Hey,it sounds like she is a nice girl! I think it's better to tell her your feeling and just tell her everything would be "OK". it sounds me that she is waiting to somebody would say her the word. but following to her pace too. She might not like if you rush her. but I can say that it would be harder to find the girl as us influenced and growing in the various society. Just want to say she sounds like a honest and believable person. good luck and you're lucky person:)
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