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How much shoud I give my boyfriend his time?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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My Boyfriend now wants to have his time and I'm sure he is bothered by something. It's about our relationship.
I had same situation with ex Boyfriend too. At that time,I thought he needed his time to solve his problem so I just didn't send him any e-mail nor calling for a while and also he did same thing and it caused the final ending without anything say goodbye nor solving anything.
so now I'm really afraid to just give my present Boyfriend to his time for a while. Or How or how much should I give him his time?
I just don't want him to think I'm annoying by having contact with him or causes bad situation.

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ionlife (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
Realize that when someone needs time, whether it is you or him, that nobody hits the pause button on life. He wants time? Give him all the time he needs by going out, having fun and being open to the possibility of finding another boyfriend. You'll either find a new guy or the current boyfriend will realize that he truly misses you and that you were the one.

The best remedy for a broken heart, revenge or just feeling down is living life to its fullest!
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languagetimothy (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
Don't give this guy any time. He's had the time. If he's not 100% sure he wants to be with you every minute of his waking day then tell him where to go.

You know those annoying people who put towels on beach chairs to reserve them so people can't sit in them, then they don't show up to use them for hours?

You're the beach chair, and there's a queue of men who'd like to sit on you. Get this selfish guy's towel off you!
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queenbtch777 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Don't act desperate. Usually 9 times out of 10 "times" means the worst. I would try to get over him. If a guy told me he needed time and I knew him well, unless there was a death or something very traumatic that happened in his life, I would say move on. If this is the end, take this as a learning experience and don't give 90% when your only getting 10% in return. The nest time around make them work. There is someone for everyone and he doesn't sound like he is your someone.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Consider it over. From experience, I can pretty much say he probably met someone else and can't tell you so he chose the most cowardly way out. Asking for time and keeping you as a back up in case it doesn't work out with this other girl. If you really want to give him that time and believe there's hope and that I'm wrong, then give him a couple of weeks (two at most) then try and contact him. I know it's hard because you want to know what's going on but try and keep yourself busy. Hang out with friends, do something to help pass the time. If he keeps on with this time bull, move on. It's not worth the eventual heartache. Trust me.
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