How would you change yourself not only for him but yourself too and show him you have changed from being moody. Frustrated with finals college. Moving in, missing him from 800 miles away. He wants me to prove to him I've changed.
I don't know how to show him or how to act over the phone. I guess change the way I'm acting? No cheating, I called him an asshole because I was so upset he didn't fly to see me and call me back to let me know if his car was fixed and I never called him that ever.
I agree with heroinboy. If a guy is really insightful, he will not be convinced by your few minutes prove. And I do encourage you to change your moodiness because it may very likely end your relationship. How do I know? I broke up my last relationship with my gf because she can't control her mood, her anger/attitude more specifically. And my friendSSS had the same problem; they also had to end their relationship. Maybe I should write an article on the negative qualities girls should change/avoid.
Anyhow, if you are really desperate to try to "prove" to him that you've changed your moodiness. Then you'll need to change your tone of voice and how you talk to him over the phone. If you are talk at a fast pace with a high pitched voice, try talking slower this time. Try to talk in a calm, and apologetic tone of voice. And do apologize to him about calling him names. Best of luck and please take my advice and get rid of those mood swings
Just try and be yourself and don't let anger get in the way of what your really feeling. If you love him he should see it for what it is and not want you to change. He should love you for who you really are.
This sounds really hard to me. Especially because of the difference. Won't he understand that you are trying very hard and love him so much that you are willing to change. Doesn't he understand that you are under a lot of pressure. He should and he needs to understand these things and deal with them for this long distance relationship to work. I think if you explain to him what you said in this question he will probably understand. You obviously have deep feelings for him and so just explain that and how much you love him. Hopefully if he wants it to work then he can understand how this is hurting you and all of your problems too. Sounds like you two need to get together sometime soon.
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