I mean, how do you draw the line between someone who is a very close friend of the opposite sex and someone you are emotionally "cheating" on with your spouse? What is the difference? Is there one?
Emotional cheating is worse in my opinion. You can have sex with anyone, but you can't be in love with just anyone. If its you cheating, time to end your relationship - because you already have. If its your man, try to let him know you love him and do something sexy-crazy to bring him back - he may have wandered because he felt you didn't love him as much as he clearly needed - and if that's not your bag, dump'em - you may both be better off in the long-run for it.
Well, as a person who does not cheat on my girl, I do have female friends and I do not view them the same as my girl. I don't love them in the context that I do my woman, which I think explains the unseen part. Hopefully. As far as the physical part, I wouldn't do anything sexual including kissing on the lips. Let's see, the majority of guys can't help but to fantasize having sex with her, since- a study indicated that the typical guy thinks of sex every 3 seconds. When he keeps on fantasizing having sex with this close friend time and again, that's when it's "cheating," and there's a problem there. That means he also wants to have the other girl while having his spouse on his side.
I'm a loyal guy, thus I would not be in any other relationship when I am already in one with a woman, so write back if you have more specific question ^ ^
Oh, of course there is a line. If you find yourself thinking about "the other" person, if you look forward to seeing/talking to him/her, if you find yourself flirting with the other person, then you should ask yourself: Am I interested in this person more than I should be interested in a friend? How you draw the line, I'm sure you can figure that. In general lines you pretty much cut out the flirting and what's associated with it. It's really up to you. You decide when it's too far.
Now, picture your spouse doing this exact thing with a "close" friend. If it would bother you. Then you know the answer.
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