Do guys consider getting a hand job, oral sex, fondling, kissing, etc. (anything besides sex) as cheating? My boyfriend swears he has never cheated on me, but I know he's messed around with at least one other woman. He swears up and down nothing happened but she called and told me the fooled around but did not have sex. I was just wondering what other guys think it's ok to mess around as long as it isn't sex.
Not too long ago I had this same conversation with my best friend. He thinks cheating is anything related to sexual intercourse (oral, anal, & vaginal). On the other hand, I think cheating is anything that your partner's not comfortable with you doing. Like my boyfriend wouldn't kiss another female on the lips even for a peck because he knows that that would make me uncomfortable. He goes for a peck on the cheek or a friendly hug.
My ex & I would fight all the time about his text msgs because they described/put him in the situation that it seemed he was single and could have sex with others. The girls would send sexual stuff and although he let me read his msgs saying he had nothing to hide, I could tell the girls wanted more from him even knowing he had a girlfriend. They even have gone so far as sending naked pictures, which I bet if they knew he let me see them they wouldn't have. All in all, we never saw eye to eye because he had to have been feeding them on for him to constantly get sexual related messages, even though he claimed they were his friends and nothing more. That's why he's my ex!
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