I'm just wondering what it is people think about being in relationship that will ultimately probably not work. Do you go through with these? And if so, what satisfaction is it you get out of this?
It depends. At my age, I dn't believe in wasting time with the wrong guy instead of finding the right guy. On the other hand, I wouldn't (in many cases) assume that it was a bad match too soon. There was one guy I let go right away. He was a really poor match intellectually and didn't share even my basic values. There was no point in dragging that out. On the other hand, I thought after a few dates with my boyfriend that we may not be compatible. (We're very different people.) I continued to get to know him, however, discovered that we aren't incompatible at all, and now I'd marry him if he asked me. The hard thing is to figure out when it really is going nowhere and when you just need to get to know each other better. I do know I wouldn't want to waste precious years with the wrong person...
I've noticed the older I get that life is about taking opportunities as they come because you never know if you'll get another chance at something. Also, as they say, you regret more the things you don't do as opposed to some things you did. So, I suppose that people just follow their heart and don't worry too much about the future because all we have is now, not yesterday and not tomorrow.
Yes, but no doubt, looking at the future and thinking about what it would be like with that person, is important... You have to consider their values and whatnot and think about what would be best for your kids if it ever reached that point. You can't just act on feelings alone, love is a choice as much as a feeling. - 2 months ago
Well what's the reason we date ? Its so we can find that one person we want to marry, have kids, with and spend the rest of our lives together happy. That's my reason for dating anyway. I don't see a point to dating someone that you know your not going to marry. Some people date for sex but I just think that's wrong. well, that's my opinion :)
No. If I know that I could never marry the girl, then I would not be in a relationship with her. A lot of people enjoy being friends with benefits, but I will never do that, because it it too much drama and complication for me. Now just because I am in a relationship with a girl does not mean that I will marry her. It means that she is probably marriage material, and it's on my mind.
I would keep it up if there is still some hope to make it work I mean, as I am writing this, I can't really come up with too many scenarios where you cannot make a relationship work if the two parties are willing. One will be if one or both are dead. The other reason that I can think of is if one or both decide to go become Catholic priest/nun. What else?
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