How can I get over rejection

1... nice body. 2 ur hott, you can easily find someone new. 3 just get out and do stuff, meet new pple and enjoy yourself.

sorry 2 hear but it was a change you took at least you tryed other people would of not so don't beat yourself up 4 that. && if that messed up ur friendship then she wasn't wort it but don't assume she could feel alitter weird that you like her && feel bad that she hurt you give it time she might come tlk 2 you unless you see her & go say hi how she been maybe then she tlk 2 you. but you seem like a nice guy you'll fine someone who one day want 2 be with you

ur hott... find something fun to do that doesn't remind you of her. generally something with other people works best

Just try to move on sweetie becausse it's her lost because now she is goning to be with a guy who only views her as a objecta and after your brother gets some her going to leave and she' going to be feeling really stupid wishing she would have gotten with someone who cares about her in more than a sexual way like yourself. I would say try to hangout with you true guy friends to get your mind off of things. I never say this stuff but go to a strip club seems to slove most guy problems. Do anything to pretty much get your mind off of her. Believe when you least expect you will find a girl of your dreams. She might have the biggest crush on you already and you don't even know yet. Goodluck! remember TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS!

I would just give her some time. It probably shocked her. She probably really thought you guys were just good friends. Maybe send her a text message or a Facebook message letting her know you still want to be good friends with her. You cried over her because you really liked this girl. Just give her some time and she may come around and if not she sucks and it's her loss that she missed out on someone great and lost a great friendship.

My friend used to like me and when he told me how he felt about me, my reaction was the same as hers. I stopped talking and seeing him for a bit, maybe to give him time to try and get over me. Because I know the more you're with them, the more you like them so maybe she wants to give you a bit of space. Anyway, I think that you should maybe find a distraction and try and get over her, maybe lessen communication for a while until yuor sure you're over her, then maybe start talknig again, even though it might make you like her again

I don't know how to get over rejection, but I can tell you that she probably isn't hanging around you because she feels bad. I know that when I have a guy friend and I find out he is interested in me I feel soooo weird and I don't want to lead them on, so I tend to avoid them for a while. I don't know this girl, but she might really care about you (as a friend for now) and not want to hurt you.

You did nothing wrong, besides being honest. Some women just don't see a good guy and go for the bad one. Just move one, and ignore her, just like she is. I know it will be hard for you to move on, but like I see it she is not worth it. She just wants to fool around with your brother. There is plenty of girls out there. At least you could say you gave a shot, and she missed out.

I did that to one of my guy friends and I feel sorry about that, when one of my guy friends told me they liked me and I said I didn't I avoided them. She is scared that whenever your hanging around her that you might be having 'weird thoughts' in your head about her and probably feels really awkward with you since she likes your brother.

For crying, its ok to cry its not like it hasn't happened before. Believe me, I felt weirded out and I felt stupid that I cried over some guy that didn't like me back, I know how it feels.

As for your brother, if the conversation comes up with her, try to defend her. If he says he wants to have sex with her then try to get in his mind the reasons why you like her. She's smart, funny, all those things. But I would do this if you are completely over her.

If your not, then tell one of her friends that you guys both know that your brother only wants her for sex and make sure she gets the memo before she starts hitting on him. If you tell her personally, she will only think that your jealous of your brother and just trying to give him a bad name.

good luck! I hope you feel better!

There's nothing weird about crying when your hearts broken. Seriously, I don't understand why men think crying is a weakness.

As for this girl, you did nothing wrong unless telling the truth and speaking your heart is wrong (and it isn't). Love is blind. You do not see the faults when you are in love with someone. She sounds as though she really loves your brother, and no matter what anyone says she probably won't figure out what kind of guy he is until it's too late.

I'm sorry this situation turned out so bad for you, but don't let it get you down. It took some serious balls to own up to your emotions and you'll only become stronger for it.

I say that you should move on...if she told you she wantes ur brother dan let her get hurt by him...she's gonna realize later what she did and she will regret it..from da pic seems like you could get any girl. : )

f*** this bitch

I've been in that situation it sucks. However I decided to just stay good friends with her friends and then after a while she started coming around and we are able to talk as friends again. Good Luck with the situation. I know your pain.

you waited too long and got in her friend zone
sorry, dogg

I've been there, I know what you're talking about. You're putting your worth in her hands... why? Why do you think she is more important than you? Don't let girls control your emotions like that, you should be proud of yourself that you worked up the courage to vocalize what you wanted - there are tons of guys that would marinate on that for years. Props.

Don't let her take the image of every other girl you meet, either. There are tons of girls out there for you, rarely will you find a girl that feels the same way she did about you. Keep your head up. The dating world is rough but pessimism isn't going to get you what you want.

No man, it was okay to tell her, because that's what you feel. Why do you prefer to be a hypocrite? LOL. Well, I guess you just have to accept she doesn't like you and be friends again, but if you can't stop thinking about her in being a more-than-friends then it's better for you that she doesn't come around you. But if you want to be friends with her, then it's cool man, I think you know what to do if that is your intention.

Once ur done crying,just remember that it's her loss,because she could of had you and ,so she is kicked out of ur reality.Don't see it as rejection,but more like elimination.

Things happen,but you gotta keep moving forward.Keep ur mind off of her as much as you can.

Do ur best.

Peace!

Rejection are not the best thing happen to anyone but its not the first time or last.
don't ever cry over somone underestimate you. move on.

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Dude, she's stupid. Sooner or later she''l figure out she made a big mistake. Just don't sweat it. Act like nothing happened ant the next time your around try and act friendly and nothing bothers you. Believe that it will work out for the best. She'll get back to being comfy with you if you seem comfy.

I know from experience either I'v been in your shoes or the her shoes.

Once I was in hers and this girl told me something like that and then I just got scared and stopped talking to her because we were just friends. I don't know how she took I but I normally saw her after that and we got really close again and I started to like her. But hey that's life. You can't have your cake and eat it too...well you can but then there's consequences. uh then jsut deal with em.

Next I dropped my feelings on a girl. Got rejected. But later she warmed up to me and would initiate convo and stuff. Hmm this isn't a good example. W/e

Things will wrk out for the best for you.

If you want to get over rejection, just put yourself through it on purpose.

Where most boys find rejection all their life, few... like yourself, have been accepted where ever you go. So naturally rejection might be a bit awkward or difficult to deal with. Because women are in control from the beginning, when they shoot a guy down... he's looking at the horizon for the next lovely lady.

look in the mirror , you have muscles and a six pack.

thats all you need to get another girl fast, once you start going out and meeting new people you will meet one that will make you forget about her.

as you get older you start to learn that girls come and go, so when one girl doesn't want you its only a matter of time before another one comes along and makes you think...

"damn wtf was I thinking wasting my time being sad over someone I don't even care about anymore?"

Its perfectly normal to feel down after you've lost something that was close at heart to you.

I don't think you did anything wrong.
You said how you felt and she didn't feel the same, but that she then started to ignore you is what causes the feelings.
Best way is to try and say that even though she doesn't feel the same way you would still like to be friends.
Respect that she doesn't feel the same way and hope she will get over it since obviously you've had a lot of fun together along the way.

Try to reason with her get her to understand you said how you felt but you didn't want it to interfere with your friendship.
Its worse to get ignored by someone you care about then rejected.
Since being ignored you don't know what you should do, but just getting rejected and staying friends at least you can still have fun together and it will make it easier to accept the rejection.