so I know this guy we talk over the internet we used to like each other. On the holidays he thought that I still liked him and everything was great he would talk to me starting the conversation and he even suggested that we should do something outside of school together. So he suggested that we go to the movies as friends but he could make it to that cause he had a lot of how to do being in year 12. We had a formal one of my friends said she saw him check me out. anyways he will only ever talk to me in person if its just us or we are not around his friends I think he might be ashamed or embarrassed to talk to me around his friends cause I am in year 11 and not friends with them. Anyways we went back to school and I told him that I didn't like him any more than a friend any more and he seemed happy about that cause he told me that he stopped liking me ages ago. So everything was fine until one night I sent him a message just being nice telling him how his artwork is really good, how he is a nice guy and how when he finished school we should make sure we still keep in touch and catch up every now and then. Ever since that letter he hasn't talked to me in person and is ignoring me online I don't want to lose him as a friend so what should I do or say to him online?
You already lost him. You lost this guy a long, long time ago.
It started the minute you told him you didn't like him anymore.
And then he gave you that diatribe about not liking you either.
When he said that, he just wanted to take a "jab" at you to feel better about the situation.
Then as time went on, he realized how much he really does like you, and it became more and more painful to even see your messages and/or email because he knew he'd never have you the way he wanted.
It's over, you should move on.
Well I have mucked up then I am such a silly lol (trying to be positive) um I like him again should I tell him or not cause this all only happened a week ago - 3 months ago
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You just said you don't want to lose him as a friend. How is it you developed feelings for him (again) in two days? - 3 months ago
I think he did indeed like you.. And he probably suggested date "as friends" because he probably didn't want to make a fool of himself (he might not have been sure if you liked him back), so he might have tried playing it safe..
But now that you told him that you didn't like him.. I think he started ignoring you on purpose and tried moving on to get rid of the pain.
Question Asker, if you really like the guy.. You better tell him quick.. or you'll lose him. - A month ago
I'm actually in a similar situation as that guy you mentioned. Question Asker.
And I'm pretty sure that at the formal and after.. He didn't approach you when you were around you friends, because he felt intimidated by your friends!!! Can you imagine the humilation for him, if he gets turned down if he asks you out in front of your friends? It's no easy task.. I think most guys feel the same way too... Too intimidated to approach a girl they like, when they're surrounded by a group of friends. - A month ago
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