So I just started working for a new job. I am now getting paid for my full 2 weeks. I am happy about that. I planned to pay my phone bill which is $208, and I wanted to throw the rest in the bank if I have some left over, but my boyfriend have a ticket that's $250.00 but he said it might be $125.00 and he asked me to pay it. I might not have enough. ugh. why did he even have to ask me? I don't mind giving it to him, but I have stuff to pay and I'm pretty sure I won't have enough. What do I do?
This might be hard because you don't want him to feel bad, but don't pay his bills! Money is a very aggressive key-factor and since you don't have too much to spare - just don't! Tell him that you do not have that much money to spare and that you are sorry.
Tell him that while you understand how much it sucks to get a ticket, HE was the one speeding and so HE should be the one paying - that's the whole point! He can afford it with his own money and it's unfair of him to ask you to pay for it unless you were pushing his foot down on the gas pedal, which I seriously doubt. Just tell him that you're sorry, but it's his responsibility and he needs to pay. You have your money for your things, he has his own money for his.
tell him you'd love to LEND him the money but that you have your bills to pay, so he'd have to find a way to settle it himself. if he gets angry about it, tell him to get a job like you did. a man's got to be self sufficient and not allow a woman to baby him like a useless bum who can't do anything himself. guys like that p*ss me off to no end, because once you start paying for their things, the more they'd do it and rely on you for money. I was once in a relationship with a guy like taht and I broke it off. just thinking about it now is enough to drive me nuts. with that being said, I also believe women should be able to pay for things themselves and not rely entirely on their s/o to pay for them.
First off, you need to take care of your responsibilities, and if you have money over you can then help him out. Why can't he pay for the ticket himself?
Idk. He has a side job which can pay for his ticket.
What do I tell him if I don't have enough, and ur right I do need to take care of my own responsibilities. - 3 months ago
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Sorry for the late reply, but it is true. you need to take care of yours, and he needs to be responsible for his. it's not fair that he should try and put his financial predicament on you. :] good luck. - 3 months ago
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