I've been dating this guy for a month.Things went on quite fast between us and we even talked about getting more serious.But due to his job ,he had to go abroad for a few months.The long distance relationship continued to work..but it slowed down.Somehow we were both suffering,we couldn't handle the separation.After a month he told me it's better to break up as his work would continue this way for about 2 years.He didn't want me to suffer with a long distance relationship and it's better we stay good friends.I told him I didn't think it wise that we stay friends and didn't want to keep contact with him.After another month of silence,i couldn't bear it and I mailed him and told him that when he's getting back to the country whether it was possible for us to meet once..just to clear things out and leave no bitterness.He mailed back and agreed.He's coming back on holidays to the country soon and I sincerely want to clear things out and ask for a second chance.Should I?
Make him want it more than you. Ask him at the end of his stay, not the begining. Have a fab. time with him and enjoy the hell out of it. Then at the very end of his trip tell him you don't care about the wait. 2 years is a short amount to trade for the possibility of happiness for a lifetime.
That is hard. If he is really going to be gone for two more years. That will be extremely hard, especially considering that you only knew him for one month before hand. I would suggest seeing if you can remain friends. Stay positive and be confident in yourself. You may end up meeting someone else (and that may not even work), or you could eventually end up with him. Look at it like you care about him (and you do). He is (like you most likely would) going to meet other women and want to be with them. You have to be OK with that and not get jealous or upset. Remember this and be positive. You never know what might happen in the future.
When you meet, just thank him for meeting with you, tell him briefly that you care about him and are glad you can keep in touch. Then, tell him how you hope you can be friends because you do care about him and you know that two years is a long time to be away from someone. Say you would love to be in relationship, but realize that is so hard to do. You are both going to be meeting new people and having good times. Because you care, his friendship is important.
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