Hi, well to start off with I've been with my fiance for 4 yrs and engaged for 4 months. I don't know why, he was never this way when we started to go out, but it seems like I can't get him to go out with me alone and just have a romantic night just the 2 of us. We always have to have our friends along whenever we go out if not, when we do, it's just to go eat lunch, have sex or do some quick shopping. How do I get him to see that I just want to have a romantic evening alone and I mean without sex? Why do guys change after you've been together for a while?
Tell him exactly what you want word for word like you told us. He may not even realize that you're only going out with friends and so will never notice if you don't tell him.
Schwildcat
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
He may just be in a comfortable rut. Try making some plans for a romantic evening - tell him to meet you someplace nice and see how he reacts. He may just not be thinking about.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal first date would be something like and amusement park. Where we can have fun and get to know each other. I would wear something casual but flirty. I would hope the date would end with a kiss and being asked out again.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
He would know whatever he asked me. I would tell him about my interests and personality and what I'm looking for in a relationship.