Okay so me and my ex boyfriend were together for about 2 years and then we broke up for about 8 months. We are now talking again and I want to be with him but he says I'm not trying and I'm different, meanwhile I'm not doing nothing different I'm being the girl I know he loved, I don't know what to do I love him so much? help me?
He may want you to be different, except that if it is not right, then its all over. You have to be very careful, and really look at yourself objectively and break down your personality and tendencies. Secondly, if you feel like dying, I recommend that you go talk to a school counselor.
Well if he says that you are acting diffrent and you don't see yourself doing so, then just keep acting the way you have been acting. Don't change cause he's going to say you are changing again, so it's best if you don't. But if you change your mind about getting back with him, look me up.
Well to me it seems like your happiness depends upon him a lot and maybe that's what's turning him off kinda, because in his eyes he thinks you are too dependent? Like maybe he'd want you to be a girl he fell for who didn't need a guy to make her feel good. Maybe if you work on your confidence a bit it will help?
Why did you break up in the first place? Maybe there is something that needs to change. I actually went through the same thing, except once he finally realized he wanted me back, I was completely over him and ready to focus on myself.
Alwayshis721
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Well maybe you should ask him why you broke up in the first place and why do you want me back. And say you are who you are and if he doesn't like it then find someone who cares. I would say talk to him and just see what's going on and if you don't like get out of the situation. If you have more questions just ask me, I'm going through that too right now.
bambinobekah
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
If he's not right he's not right. I mean he hasn't realized how lucky he must be to have someone he loved before come back. You could get way better. I wasted all my time on a boy before I realized I could get better.
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