I was at my boyfriend's hockey game with one of my friends when this guy that used to go to our school showed up with one of his friend. We all started talking after the game and agreed the 4 of us would meet up at taco bell. Afterwards we got each others numbers and went our separate ways.
When I got home, the guys started texting me. The friend (lets call him bob for sake of argument) apparently likes me. Well I have a boyfriend and I keep telling him that, but he still likes me. We started talking and he will randomly mention that he wishes I didn't have a boyfriend, and asks if I would date him if I was single. I try to answer carefully, because I don't want to mess up mine and my boyfriend's relationship we have, but I don't want to ruin the new found friendship me and bob have.
If you really love your current boyfriend, you will stop talking to this "Bob" cause If you keep this up, you and Bob might do something later on that you will regret . You know, there are other friends you could easily make who are not going to try to hit on you, knowing that you have a boyfriend already . A relationship, in this case, is more important than friendship especially when you met this friend after you hooked up with your current boyfriend .
Just be perfectly honest. Tell him that you really care about your boyfriend, that you would never cheat on him, and that although you appreciate his compliments, you don't appreciate being hit on with a boyfriend. Tell him that if he doesn't stop, you will stop talking to him. As far as telling your boyfriend, there is no need. As long as you are honest with the guy, and tell him that he needs to quit it, or you won't respond, then you will be fine.
First of all, who do you have stronger feelings for--your boyfriend, or Bob? WOULD you consider going out with "Bob" if you were single? Or, are you still strictly committed, heart and mind, to your current boyfriend? The best thing you can do is be honest to yourself, and to Bob. Don't lie to save anyone's feelings. That will just make you feel uneasy. As for telling your boyfriend about it, I say yes. He may not be happy about it, but at least you're not keeping anything from him . And if you do care more about him than Bob, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Being honest is much better than keeping secrets. Your boyfriend will probably be happy that you're not keeping any secrets, and you'll feel better. Well, good luck with all that. I hope that helps you.
Ask your boyfriend what he thinks. It will mess up your relationship with him. If this guy likes you, you can't be his friend. I guarantee it would develop into more. Trust me. Stop being friends with Bob before you lose your boyfriend. Make a new friend named Sara. I am sure your boyfriend would like that name better than Bob.
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