So I have only been with a handful of guys, but I'm curious because all I have ever done is made out. I am all for going further with them, but when it comes time to, I freeze up and feel awkward and stupid. I usually end up stopping them because I feel embarrassed. But the thing is, when I talk to them, I tell them all of the things I want to do to them, and then I don't. I don't want to seem like a tease. What should I do to loosen up around guys?
Well first of all this might seem weird coming from a guy. Ha. But you need to do it when it feels right to you. If your not ready to don't rush. The time will come. Do not feel pressure and who cares what anyone else thinks. Do what feels right to you. And if you find the guy that you feel comfortable with do what feels right. The time will come but don't just do it to do it. Do it when you are ready and it feels right. I hope that helps.
Maybe you are with the wrong guys or maybe they are just guys you aren't comfortable with. Maybe the problem is them not you, or maybe you just don't know them well enough so you get nervous. It's a thought anyway.
Sweetie, What you need to do is to loosen up a little bit and you shouldn't tell them the things you are going to do to them and then your not going to do it at all!!!! You either shouldn't tell them that your going to do that or when your with them actually loosen up and do it and don't worry about anything!!!!
You shouldn't feel awkward! if you do it is because you really don't want to do it you just said that to make the guy or guys feel good and expect something that there not going to get!!!! you need to take sometime and think about it!! You kinda sound like a tease just a little bit but try and not to say it to them and not do it!!! Think before you say it and then you have to actually go and do it ok!!!!! just think about it and realize what your doing!!! because it does sound like your trying to be a tease!
tammymac
(Age:36 to 45)
When: More than a year ago
Wait until it feels so right that you can't stop yourself, so right that you don't even consider feeling embarrassed about it. I know it sounds funny but you'll know when the time is right, better yet when the man is right. ( p.s. always use protection )
This is great advice. There is no better way to answer your question. - 9 months ago
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crazngirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
You should be in a serious relationship and make sure you can trust the guy because once you do that and if you regret it remember you can't take it back---always make SURE you TRUST him---
MsVirginChica
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
It's not that you are tense, it's just that you are nervous about doing somthing wrong or not being good at the things you know how to do it's your first time and it's going to be scary and you are not supposed to know what you are doing. Just make sure the guy knows you are a virgin and that you feel really strongly for him.
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