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I Thought Men Were Supposed To Be In Charge and The Leaders In The Household....

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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)     When: 2 months ago
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Why does a girl have to be shorter than you? Why do you let society dictate to you what a girl or man is suppose to be like. You seem to be a follower not a leader. If you saw in the media, movies and magazines, women full figured, taller than men etc...than you would go for that. Most men want women shorter, skinner and weak looking because they are ABUSIVE….They don’t want a woman who could give them a run for their money. You know what?...That's what makes me special, I don't let society corrupt my mind or heart. I’m what you call a leader. God said a man is the head of woman as men are to be SUBMISSIVE TO CHIRIST. How could a woman respect you as a head or leader if you allow society to dictate to you what is attractive, acceptable, and sexy. Majority of American women are a size 14 – 18. Believe me when I tell you … the sex is way better. Men like to feel walls in a woman, not bones and emptiness. They need more cushion for the pushing. I know this because I have 5 brothers who keep me well informed. Men allowing the media, TV and magazines dictate and tell them that thin is in… These weaklings are just very WEAK mind. They don’t deserve a woman’s love or RESPECT. A man takes charge. He makes the rules.


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tex151
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tex151      When: 2 days ago
Well someone went wayy off the reservation damn. I like skinny girls because that's the way women should be, ya ya go ahead say well back in the day it wasn't like that true, but we also live past 30 now a days. Being skinny is healthy who would have thought that one. Men don't like to feel blubber on a woman, we want to feel a nice toned body because those women actually care what they look like not talking about the skeletors, but the women who keep in good shape, yes that means diet and exercise.

Yes if I were you, I would be bitter to, watching all the skinny girls sweep away all the guys, while you are left with the nerds and yes the over eaters. So I guess in that situation I would to eat my feelings, for every tear equals one cheese burger. So if being skinny is bad as you say, then why are these women living longer without diabetes, heart disease and high cholesterol? You guessed it because they are in shape and living a healthy life style, but your right living healthy is bad and we should all engorge ourselves in a buffet of fried foods every single night, so we can all be just as miserable as you are.
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Ollie
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Ollie      When: 29 days ago
WOH... Is it that time of month for you? Or are you just a psycho Christian missionary?
This isn't the right website for you, please gtfo... You didn't even ask a question.
Which is kind of what you're supposed to do. But I'll answer you anyway...
Girls don't have to be shorter at all. Many guys will say tall girls are sexy.
My first crush was taller than me. All men are abusive are they? That's rich...
Who says we we go for women who are in the media ect..
Do you have statistics for that? I don't think so. Personally I think you're just jealous.
And I find that saying men are supposed to be head of the household is degrading to women.
"I'm what you call a leader" Way to toot your own horn. Unfortunately you being a moron will get in the way of you being a 'good' leader.
Oh and the sex is better is it? xD this is so funny...
Anyway, I don't know what happened to you, it's obvious that someone has just left you/rejected you or something and now you're going into a hissy fit.
Stop taking your anger out on other people.. That's weak.
If I were with you, the only rule I'd have is that you keep your trap shut at all times.
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Question Asker You are a fool. You actually think you know more than God. God is the one who said a man is the head of the household moron. And I haven't been hurt no more than you loser. Jealous? Of what clown? If you don't like my comments, just don't respond sucker. - 25 days ago
Answerer How dare you call me a fool, loser, clown and sucker. I'm male.
Now repent or face eternal damnation. Hahahahah... -.-' - 24 days ago
Answerer That was just me poking fun at you, don't take it seriously.
First of all, I don't claim to know more than 'God', I claim to know more than you.
I think men who lived in a time where women were treated like dirt said that, not God.
And I feel the need to respond to such idiocy, in the hope to make you realize where you're wrong.
But something I've learned over the years is that you people just block out anything that contridicts what you believe. You don't learn.. You don't adapt. Open your mind. - 24 days ago
Answerer I've got a question to ask.
You said: "Why do you let society dictate to you what a girl or man is suppose to be like. You seem to be a follower not a leader", Why do you let GOD dictate what man or woman is supposed to be like? You are more a follower than I, lady... A slave even...
No... A tool. - 24 days ago

DrJones
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DrJones      When: A month ago
I've dated girls who are almost as tall as me and studied martial arts. A few of them could probably beat me up. Hell, a few of them have. (Nothing serious... just play-fighting, you know. It was fun.)

However, I've never dated anyone who thinks that God commands women to be submissive to men and I never will. God never said anything of the sort. That would be "society" talking, and people like you perpetuating the story.

"Society" is not an abstract being, it's the product of our own behaviors. Don't like a social norm? Don't follow it. Telling us that men make the rules because your preacher said so makes you a follower, not a leader.
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Question Asker You need to pick up your Bible. Look at Ephesians 5:21-24. It states that a husband is the HEAD of his wife....like it or not. You honestly think you know more than God...that's such a laugh. That's why humans are in such a mess as we are now. Disobedience ...thinking they know so much more than the Designer and Creator of all thing. Seek help fool. - 25 days ago
Answerer God didn't write the Bible.

Men wrote the Bible, and men translated it into English. That might explain why they put themselves in charge of their wives. - 22 days ago

jaynasty
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jaynasty      When: A month ago
obviously your a complete moron because men and women are made differently womens dna is naturally different and women are naturally smaller and skinnier first off...second off guys natural instinct is to be dominant over women and be the protectors ever since cavemen explaining why most men would love to have a little girl because they are much bigger and feel way more dominent over them basicly its natural instinct...enough w the science and history lessons haha but I understand what your saying abou tmedia having an effect it does because now regular guys want the gorgous models...but I think it has more of an affect on women...most women see those magazine and pretty models and try to change themselves like that...almost every black guy I know loooveeee fat women or thick women haha and every single mexican buddy of mine loves thicker women and these women to me just look fat...just proving that there's a wiiiddeee variety of men out there and depending on teh culture...like black dudes often prefer thicker women seems a lota mexicans do to like I said and lasty there is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with trying to look pretty like in teh magazines and being healthy and feeling confident in our modern society
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Question Asker You don't have to be taller than the woman to be a protector clown. It's not natural instinct , it's some media man made bull crap designed by men to try to always dominant and control. It's just that simple. The only man that wants a bony woman is an abusive man. It's always more comfortable to lay on meat, flesh opposed to bones. - 25 days ago

Camilus
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Camilus      When: 2 months ago
This "question" is hilarious. I don't know who just rejected you but they must have been pretty mean about it, lol. Anyways, I like women who are smaller and shapely (and I don't mean the shape of a bowling ball) and it has nothing to do with the media or me wanting to beat them up.
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Question Asker Like I stated earlier...you're abusive or you have sugar in your tank. You think being with a shorter woman makes you more manly. A real man knows he's a man...he doesn't have to tower over a woman just to feel masculine. You are a faggot just waiting to blossom. - 25 days ago

rdxhai
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rdxhai      When: 2 months ago
Well I'm 6'4 so If a girl is taller than me, well sh*t.

I think you are pushing the issue to much, not all guys are like this..
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Rainbows Agreed. I have known almost no guys that act like this.
Shit, these days the majority of guys seem to prefer bigger girls. - 2 months ago
Question Asker So what if she's taller. Who made the rule that women had to be shorter anyway? As long as she cares and loves you, that's all that matters. - 25 days ago
Answerer If she's taller than me she would probably be a beast.

My current girlfriend is 5'10 and its perfect for me. - 25 days ago
 

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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
Wow, you're very passionate about this.

Society is messing up men and women. Women are thinking they have to be as skinny as possible and look like celebrities. Men think the definition of success is having a barbie looking girl on their arm. And celebrities are starving themselves and going under plastic surgery to fit an image to be successful. We're all on this crazy ride together.
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Question Asker You're right. Only a dog wants a bone. It's ALWAYS more comfortable to lay on flesh rather than bones. - 25 days ago

madi25193
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madi25193      When: A month ago
im offended
dude by saying that you have just contradicted the " that's what makes me special"
and ur streotyping women like myself that are skinny you don't think I cudnt give my man a run for his money
u mite wanna think again
and streotyping couple " y does the man always have to b taller"
ive had many relationships were I am taller
and my best friend is taller than her man

and how do you even no the sex is better okay ur brothers
but have you tried it hmmmm?
hun seriously go back under the rock you came from
:D
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