Bad feeling

Always go with your intuition because it won't steer you wrong. I wouldn't trust this girl as far as you could throw her. However, the person you need to trust now is your boyfriend and have faith in him. He isn't hiding anything from you and even told her about you. In addition, there is a reason that she is no longer in the picture and you are.

I would recommend monitoring the situation before you assume something will happen. When you start seeing changes in your bf's behavior, he is hiding things, getting mysterious calls or texts, staying out late etc then you will need to take action. In the meantime, he is older now and probably in a different place then he was at 30. Trust in him and that he will handle the situation and her.

You want to keep your man? Learn this - 1. If you seem like you have nothing to worry about, and are confident in your relationship, he will see that You are understanding- because really you have no idea what's going on, and if your unsure, he will be too 2. Women are shady, and she might try, but if he knows he has a wonderful women waiting at home for him, he'll see right through that twit, plus guys ARE allowed to have girls as friends, even as someone they would rather talk to then you, or especially about you, you can't say you don't go to other guys for advice about him, or you wouldn't have posted this question. 3 and most important. Trust- you need to trust him, and if you can't trust him, it will NEVER work. Believe in him, and he will believe in you, believe that your relationship is strong and he will too, and who knows, it might turn a whole boat load of things around for you. Good luck!

When I first started reading your post I thought maybe you had read too much into this. I looked for a guy for about 8 years and I was so excited when I finally found him and I had also told him that there was a million things I needed to say to him. All of this though was because I was molested as a kid and he was the one who was there for me and took care of me when I had a break down as a kid. And just talking to him again made everything better even though I didn't want anything with him. But she does seem a little more persistent and seem to want more with the way she keeps going. Whether it's jealousy or not though, your boyfriend should be understanding that it makes you uncomfortable and just delete her. He hasn't seen or heard from this girl in 7 years so she shouldn't mean anything to him anyways. So he shouldn't have a problem telling her to leave him alone. Whether it's rational or not, it's something that is upsetting you and over someone who shouldn't be important to him. Just tell him it's not jealousy, you have a bad feeling about this girl and you can tell she likes you. Explain to him that you would delete a guy of yours if it was the other way around.
Listen to this song... Do You Believe Me Now by Jimmy Wayne. If you have to play it for him, maybe he'll understand then. You can never see it when it's you, it takes an out siders perspective. So even if he can't see it, it doesn't mean it's not true.